My boy/girl twins each have their own bed, but lots of nights (like tonight) they wind up sleeping together in DS's bed. I think it's adorable, and they are so happy, but I happened to mention it the other day at a family do, and one of my cousins said she thought it was weird, and that once kids get to get around three, it's not appropriate anymore. And I was like
. I mean, they're FOUR. They're barely over being babies.
So I totally get that it's perfectly fine for them to be together, now. But it got me thinking, and DH and I were talking, about when it's time to separate them, and I don't know what I think.
So I guess I'm wondering-- obviously it depends on the kids, of course, and the situation, but generally speaking, when do you think opposite-gender siblings should stop sharing a bed? What about sharing a room?