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How Long to Feed?

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My daughter is almost one month old.  Within the last few days (or maybe the last week or so; it's hard to keep track of time) she's decided that all she wants to do is nurse.  However, a large majority of the time she's at my breast, she's not actively sucking.  I've read that I should let her stay at the breast until she pulls herself off, but should I really let her stay at one breast for 40-60 min?  Sometimes it seems like she's nursing for an hour every hour, which is tiring on several different levels.

 

We got off to a rocky start to breastfeeding and I suspect I may have low supply issues.  Could this be why she stays so long at the breast?

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What I always did, during the newborn period, was to switch them to the other side as soon as they were going a full five seconds between each suck, or when I could no longer hear any swallowing at all. If baby took the other side, then I assumed baby wants more. If baby refuses to latch on the other side, or stays too deeply asleep to be interested in the other side, I let it go. (This is assuming weight gain and diaper output are adequate-- with a baby who's not getting enough, I would be trying harder to wake baby.)

I switched, even if baby's already had the other side.

That doesn't mean, however, that sometimes, especially when my older kid needed me, or dinner needed to be gotten ready, that I didn't sometimes take baby off after the sucking stopped, if baby seemed okay about it. But I would be letting baby set the "end" time for MOST feeds.
post #3 of 4
My DD wanted to feed for hours, and most of the time she was half-asleep. When she was just about a month old she lost weight, and we found out she wasn't feeding effectively. By then my supply had dipped, and it took us a looong lime to sort that out.

Listen for sucking, or feel for it on your baby's neck, it should go suck-suck-swallow, most of the time (not necessary when baby is trying to feed to sleep - provided he/she doesn't try to go to sleep all the time!). But if the baby feeds, say 60 min, and 35 of that is very effective, that is probably fine. However, if the baby feeds 5-10 min, and then slows down, there may be a problem.

What you can do is to try to keep baby's interest in feeding up, tickle under the chin, under the foot etc. When nothing else works, take baby off and switch breasts (if the active feeding was 20 min or more, you may want to change nappy or take clothes off here, as well as try burping). The faster flow on the next breast should get baby started again. Do the same to try to keep baby feeding well, then change breasts again, if active feeding isn't 45 min or more (changing nappies here or try potty). You can swap up to six times or more (we did 4, and fed for about 1 hour). This encourages your baby to feed better, and your breasts to feed more.

Have a look at some of Dr Jack Newman's stuff about effective sucking and switch-nursing:

http://www.drjacknewman.com/help/Protocol%20to%20Increase%20Breastmilk%20Intake.asp

On the other hand, some babies do feed for very long on one breast, possibly 2 hours or more in the early months. It can be normal. But as you suspect ineffective sucking and possible low supply (a common result), I'd check it up. Know that it can be sorted out! We got the supply up, DD is a healthy 3 yo and still breastfed!

Good luck!

Please feel free to PM me any questions, or just to talk. I know how worrying it is.
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Is baby gaining weight well? Pooping and peeing well? This is a great site to find out if baby is getting enough milk.

 

If weight gain and diapers are good, then Llyra has mentioned some strategies to make feeds more efficient. I found that breast compressions helped too.

 

What also helped was getting comfortable and distracted for nursing sessions! We nursed lying down a lot (still do!) and I invested in a mini DVD player. I watched a whole lot of DVDs for the first 6 weeks! And I always had a water bottle and a healthy snack too. It made me less likely to feel like I wanted to scream "enough already"! 

 

And this web site helped too (tell me if you can't access facebook) because it explained that these long feeds are normal, and that baby was doing so much more than eating. love.gif

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