Originally Posted by Llik CN
Thank you for your comments. I am curious as to how you are able to find 4 abusive woman whom you are CERTAIN they lie about their abuse on their men and children. However, I'm happy for you that your own mum, which is your real life experience, is nothing of the sort and she takes very good care of you. I'm sure you will also love her and take very good care of her.
I'm not sure if you are married or if you have any children or if you are a single parent. Just to give you a little insight. First of all, all women have mother instincts and love their own children. Secondly, most single mums do not have the time to take revenge or plot or lie. If they do, it normally does not last because they simply don't have the time to follow it through. This is because biologically, the physical strength and ability of a 65 year old man is equivalent to that of a 25 year old woman i.e. a 65 year old man has as much strengths, stamina, willpower, etc etc as a 25 year old woman. If you are above 25, you are weaker than an old man (not to say a young man below 65) and trust me, when it comes to taking revenge, lying, plotting evil plans, etc etc, you will sure lose out to the man, just that you may not know as the man will not tell you that you lose. Thirdly, beware of men who are overly petty and vicious much more than women.
Thanks for your "insight." First of all, I didn't have to do anything to find the women I mentioned. Trust me, no one goes LOOKING in hopes of finding a relative who hurts her children, especially not when you yourself are a child. Secondly, maybe all women have mother instincts, but I assure you that some women, just like some men, have other issues that they put before those instincts. IME, it's usually related to hardcore drug use.
(PS, the use of all caps in "certain" was rather condescending. Do you think I don't know what it looks like to see a woman abuse her husband and children, with my own eyes, and then say that he was the one hitting her? I don't want to go into too many details about the others, because I use my real name to post here, but yes, I am CERTAIN. And yes, that is part of my "real life experience.")
I am sure that the vast majority of mothers, single or not, do not hurt their children, plot revenge against their husbands, lie about abuse, etc. But most men also don't beat their wives in front of their children, while their 2yo son tries to fend the attack off with a plastic bat, begging Daddy not to hurt Mommy anymore. Yet I have seen both of those things with my own eyes. One of the sad things that we all have to come to terms with eventually is that, even though most people are good, some people in this world simply are not. And some of those people are women.
It is true that most men are physically stronger than most women. First of all, that doesn't do much good for men who are afraid to fight back or defend themselves. Many men have had it so ingrained into them to never hit a woman (which is a good thing) that they simply can't respond to a physical attack from a woman. Secondly, it doesn't make any difference at all with emotional abuse, which is how I would categorize intentional false accusations. And personally, I find the implication that women are simply not capable of that kind of abuse to be narrow-minded and an incredibly harmful attitude towards those who have been hurt by women, either as children or adults. It's really no better than refusing to believe that a man would hurt his wife because "he's such a nice guy."