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post #1 of 28
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I had completely forgotten just how tired I would be as I neared the end.    Oh my goodness.  The level of tired I have reached is beyond anything I have experienced in a very long time.  I have been tired in each pregnancy towards the end, but I think that chsing three kids has really slowed me down.  Anyone else feeling this way?

 

post #2 of 28

Yes! I am totally exhausted! My kids are bigger but still require a lot of energy. With their baseball & softball schedules and me finishing up my semester, and all of us (my mom included) trying to get our house & yard whipped into shape there's been so much going on that I am worn out. I spent today doing pretty much nothing because I was so worn out from the weekend.

 

I'm really hoping that this level of tiredness doesn't continue because I'm not really sure how I'll function!

post #3 of 28

My level of exhaustion is ridiculous. I don't even think it's the kids so much as just how my body is coping with this particular pregnancy. My age? Closely spaced pregnancies? 

post #4 of 28

I nearly passed out at MIL's last night. I think it was the combination of an earlier-than-usual daytime nap, and a ridiculously sugary dessert.

 

What makes it worse is when I get the opportunity to sleep, I can't do it. If I have a daytime nap I feel I should listen to a Hypnobabies CD... and I do usually fall asleep in the middle, but it's a distraction for the first 20 minutes or so. Or I start reading a library book because I know I have to return them soon (and because I'm addicted to reading). Or I start worrying about all the things I have yet to sew/knit/clean/cook in preparation for the baby, and make a mental list of what I'll do when I wake up, and feel guilty about napping at all...

 

And then I wake up early in the morning and start worrying again! But I can't actually get up and do the stuff, because I'm a) too exhausted and b) not in the mood for DD to wake up screaming blue murder because I dared get out of bed (a recent charming habit of hers).

 

Add to that all the times I can't sleep because of heartburn, and late nights for various reasons, and DD waking us up in the middle of the night... and yep. Not fun.

post #5 of 28

I honestly think I've never been this tired...except first trimester this time around.  I agree that I think part of it is chasing the kids, part of it is me being older, and part of it is that this baby is just sucking every single piece of energy out of me!  winky.gif

 

post #6 of 28

Be sure you all are getting enough iron ;)  Pregnancy fatigue is common, but even a slightly lower level (not even clinically significant) can make you extra tired.  I complained of fatigue at my last appointment and said I felt my iron was low. It was 33.9 and they say anything above a 34 is fine according to doc. But, I upped my iron supplement myself and within about a week I was already feeling a little more energetic...nothing dramatic, but I wasn't dozing off at the dinner table crippling tired.

post #7 of 28

I've been super tired lately, and my OB's office called to let me know I was slightly anemic.  I'm starting iron supplements today (finally, it took me 2 weeks to figure out which one to use) and I'm hoping I feel an improvement!  I've been trying to eat a lot more red meat and dark green veggies as well.

post #8 of 28

I'm right there with all of you!  Unfortunately, when I nap, then I have a harder time sleeping at night.    So if I don't nap, I walk around like a zombie, and when I do nap, I'm alert enough during the afternoon/evening, but face a restless night.   Nights when I don't get a nap, I am OUT, and in the mornings, whether I've slept well or not it is SOOOOOO hard to get out of bed.

post #9 of 28

I just had my iron levels checked yesterday and they were great.  I think it's mostly just trying to do too much.  I'm already feeling better since DD1 is back at school today after 10 days off!


 

post #10 of 28

Yeah, especially right now I'm falling asleep on my feet. I've been up until 6-7am every night for the past week... getting in some naps during the day, and I still can't sleep at night no matter what I do. :(

post #11 of 28

My main issue with sleep - the dreams, the awful and terrible dreams. I'll wake up panting, pulse racing and go back to sleep for more. Dear Hypnobabies, I don't want to release my fears! Infidelity, cancer induced hair loss, losing the baby and zombies - come on! 

post #12 of 28
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Originally Posted by kawa kamuri View Post

My main issue with sleep - the dreams, the awful and terrible dreams. I'll wake up panting, pulse racing and go back to sleep for more. Dear Hypnobabies, I don't want to release my fears! Infidelity, cancer induced hair loss, losing the baby and zombies - come on! 


This is a major problem for me as well! My dreams are always a little nuts, but when I'm pregnant they are completely insane. To the level that I could probably be diagnosed as psychotic if Freud were to hear my dreams. The dreams that don't make me wake up in a total panic disturb me to the point where I wake up and wonder if I need to be admitted to a psych unit.

 

post #13 of 28

yes! I'm so very tired. I can't make it through the hypnobabies cds at all and I'm just not up for anything at all! its awful.


 

post #14 of 28

My dreams are a major issue too. They're SO intense and often very emotional. Plus, every time I close my eyes I have sex dreams. TMI, but ever since this pregnancy started I've had at LEAST 1-3 sex dreams every time I go to sleep. That's not so bad, except I have orgasms during these dreams and these orgasms almost always wake me up... which means I can't get back to sleep after. I never thought I'd complain about this but... a little less dream-plows would be nice!


 

post #15 of 28
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Originally Posted by littleteapot View Post

My dreams are a major issue too. They're SO intense and often very emotional. Plus, every time I close my eyes I have sex dreams. TMI, but ever since this pregnancy started I've had at LEAST 1-3 sex dreams every time I go to sleep. That's not so bad, except I have orgasms during these dreams and these orgasms almost always wake me up... which means I can't get back to sleep after. I never thought I'd complain about this but... a little less dream-plows would be nice!


 


I've had this happen a few times, also to the point where I wake up and can't get back to sleep. I'm not getting sex anywhere else, so I guess getting some in my dreams is good... but I'd be fine with a little less intensity!

 

post #16 of 28
Thread Starter 

Ah, thank you!  All of you ladies is making me feel less loco!  And agreed on the TMI dreams.  Way too real, way too much sexy times in the dreams and not in real life.  I just can't get comfortable enough to be in the physical mood, even though I am in the mental mood, as expressed by the dreamingSheepish.gif

post #17 of 28

My dh has been complaining that I've been crying out/thrashing around in my sleep, but I don't have any memory of it at all - but it may explain why I feel so exhausted still in the morning, if I'm not getting a totally restful night. 

 

What the heck is this dream thing about?

post #18 of 28

Throughout my last pregnancy I had orgasms during dreams all the time. Fantastic! This time I dream about zombies and vultures and (almost) nothing even remotely sexy. Oh well. 

post #19 of 28

I don't sleep well enough to dream anymore! Its frustrating.Anyone have better sleep suggestions. I feel like I'm going off the deep end.


 

post #20 of 28
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Originally Posted by coharmony View Post

I don't sleep well enough to dream anymore! Its frustrating.Anyone have better sleep suggestions. I feel like I'm going off the deep end.


 



I was there about 2 weeks ago. Now I have gone off that deep end and seem to be able to run on like 4 hours of sleep!!! 

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