Please, Be Careful

[lilyka]

I was in a court hearing for child support today and something I said here came up.  He stalks me here (i knew that) and he had printed it off and brought it with him to use as evidence.  It was nothing he could have really used against me. (he says I was hiding marital property but 1) that ship sailed three years ago and 2) I wasn't really hiding anything.  I stocked up on anything and everything.  Did it with money from a joint account and left it hanging around our house.  He was free to take whatever he wanted from the home *shrug* 3) the value of the property would not cover 2 hours of lawyer fees..) but still, it was unnerving to hear him bring up stuff I say here, to admit under oath he stalks me online...after complaining that he has to work a hundred...a thousand...a million hours a week.

So friends, just a friendly reminder (and a little vent)  to be careful what you say.

[PoppyMama]

He tried to bust you for hording household goods while he left you for a woman he had an extended affair with...years later and to.reduce child support? Cute. At least he didn't try to post here about howunfair you are again.

[lilyka]

Yeah he is a winner.  I never share anything here he can actually use against me.    Even on the private forums (hey, he has the time apparently, to pose as a single mom looking for support)  But I know a lot of mamas do.  Even if they aren't saying things that can be used against them, they are exposing their hand, which could hurt them.  

[tccandlsccmom]

Yup, social media can be used against us...but it can also be used BY us!

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