Something I've noticed about birth is that many people generalize.
When I was practicing chiropractic and asked questions about the patient's own birth and any births the patient had had (hard to write that out), they would invariably say "oh that's just how they were doing things then".
I could have 3 50 year old women on one day tell me vastly different birth stories about their children, all born in the same year, but they would all say "that's just how it was done then".
I've noticed it in health care professionals as well. For instance, my stepmom-the-neonatal-nurse works for what seems to be a highly progressive, good hospital (although from her description they do tend to berate the "failed" homebirthers who come in; guess who doesn't know I'm homebirthing?), and she simply refuses to believe that things are different in other hospitals.
I'm not sure what the block is, but I was trying to tell her things that have happened to friends or online acquaintances, and she just couldn't hear me.
Not sure if this is relevant here, but I thought I'd mention it.
When I was practicing chiropractic and asked questions about the patient's own birth and any births the patient had had (hard to write that out), they would invariably say "oh that's just how they were doing things then".
I could have 3 50 year old women on one day tell me vastly different birth stories about their children, all born in the same year, but they would all say "that's just how it was done then".
I've noticed it in health care professionals as well. For instance, my stepmom-the-neonatal-nurse works for what seems to be a highly progressive, good hospital (although from her description they do tend to berate the "failed" homebirthers who come in; guess who doesn't know I'm homebirthing?), and she simply refuses to believe that things are different in other hospitals.
I'm not sure what the block is, but I was trying to tell her things that have happened to friends or online acquaintances, and she just couldn't hear me.
Not sure if this is relevant here, but I thought I'd mention it.




Don't you tend to believe things that mesh more with your own beliefs as well?

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