Hi,
I live in Methuen and I'm trying to decide where to birth. I went about 20 pages deep in this forum and read all about your experiences with Cambridge Birth Center, Mount Auburn, Newton Wellesley, and North Shore Birth Center. It's awesome that I could find all of this info on personal experiences and it really helped me a lot. (Thanks!)
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However, I noticed that you aren't allowed to post negative reviews here on the board. So this is my request to learn about the ugly side of these places. Please, if you have a moment, PM me and let me know any information that you think is important to know about these places. I think I basically crossed CBC off my list, but I am curious to hear about the MAMAH, NWH, and NSBC.
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Also, do you think I'm crazy for looking into hospitals and birth centers that are 40 minutes away when there are so many other hospitals near me? I interviewed nurses at Lawrence, Lowell, and Winchester Hospital but none sounded too experienced with natural birth. I talked to an awesome nurse from Holy Family who had 2 of her babies there and she told me all about her natural birth: no drugs, labored in the tub, intermittent monitoring, no IV required, pushed in different positions, no interventions, etc. It sounded like everything I am looking for. She recommended her OB/midwife team (Dr. Edwards in Salem, NH) and I was seeing them for my prenatal appointments with the hopes of birthing at HF, but then I miscarried. Then, I found out that Holy Family has a 47% CS rate and now I'm afraid to even set foot in there, so I'm hoping to find new providers for my next pregnancy. Am I right to avoid HF, or do you think if I stick with the team of the OB and two midwives I should be okay? The CS rate totally scares me, but the nurse suggested that there might be certain old-fashioned OBs who drive up the CS rate. I was told that, if I go into labor during the week, then I will get one of the two midwives or Dr. Edwards, but if I go into labor on the weekend I may end up with one of the other 2 people from that practice. Is the practice's CS rate more important than the hospital's CS rate?
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Thanks in advance. Since I have yet to have a successful pregnancy, any guidance would be appreciated. :)
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Katie










If I weren't having a homebirth, I would birth