(If this should go into a different forum, please let me know!). I'm wondering if there any here who have 3 or more kiddos and are trying to conceive again. Just really want to chat with you about your decision, and how you made it, to have more than three little monkeys! I really feel that I "need" to have more but my head is not really on board, is rather anxious about the whole thing... We are not well off, have limited resources, have a wee bit of family support... and all of this is making me think that wanting more than 3 is really, well, irresponsible in our case! But I want one more anyway! And being torn like this has been damn difficult. How do you make a decision like that? I've talked to some mothers whose kids are grown now, who have said, don't make your decisions exclusively based on money... and I tend to agree with that. But, it is a huge thing - having enough to cover the expenses, having enough no to drown in debt, etc... AND of course, having enough energy to mother a full house, too!