YAY! The Classroom brand elastic shorts and pants will fit. The size smaller is too small and the size I got is slightly too big but that can be fixed easily. WHEW! HUGE relief, thanks so much for all the links and support.
Awesome that you found something! I was flipping through a LL Bean catalogue this morning and thought of you. In the boys sections (I know but sometimes they don't have to know) they had cargo style pants in uniform colors with elastic waists, from small to big kid sizes. Just throwing it out there.
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