PLZ HELP!! SO CONFUSED =[

[xxkayluhh07xx]

I have been TTC for about 3 months now.. to start off with ill give you some detail so you better understand my sitsuation.. menstrual cycle dates: march 4th and april 3rd.. This month has been a bit different than the last two.. this month about 4 days ago my left boob started hurting.. it felt like a bruise to the touch.. it was only on the side of it near my underarm.. then the following day it stopped hurting but my right boob started hurting in the same spot..and it swelled up.. it was deffiently larger than my left boob.. well then yesterday it stopped hurting and they look the same size.. and today its the same.. no pain,, same size.. last night i started stopping brownish dark redish.. which is normal for me to spot like that the day before my period begins.. it usually happens like this, spot like that for a few hours than its all on heavy dark red.. real heavy for a day then tappers off.. well its now a REALLY bright red.. and extremely light.. not reallly light like a spotting.. but like one level up from spotting.. its really weird.. ive never experienced having bright red blood for this long.. i have had it where it was the dark brownish red then goes to bright red for like an hr or two.. then the dark red.. but this is the longest ive ever had bright red bleeding.. and its lighter than my usual period.. and its a couple days before im expecting my period.. 

im just asking for you guys experience.im wondering if maybe this is implantation bleeding or just an irregular period.. plz be honest. and tell me what you guys experienced when you had implantation bleeding.

[Bugglette]

Do you know when you O'd?  I've never had implantation bleeding; but if you know when you ovulated it will tell you if you are near when implantation would occur, or if you possibly O'd earlier than normal.  How long is your LP normally?

ETA:  Are you still bleeding/spotting today?  When exactly were you expecting AF?  Implantation spotting

[proud2bemommy]

it can be implantion bleeding i had that with my first and it was just like that but if it get heavier or last  more than 3 days its prolly not my implantion bleeding lasted for two days but it wasnt exactly steady bleeding its different for everyone i wish ya luck

[proud2bemommy]

also  my boobs were the same way if your boobs start hurting worse u get visible veins in them and nipples or your montogomy glands get raise its a good sign

[xxkayluhh07xx]

Yeahh i dont know im going to get a BFP this month..i started using fertility friend last night so i can find out if im even ovulating becasue i was on BC that messed up my system alot...

[Jaimee]

How do you determine ovulation?  Do you chart? Can you share the link?  You could have ovulated early and this is a weird AF or it could be breakthrough bleeding, implantation bleeding, or bleeding with pregnancy.  My experience with implantation bleeding was a pin prick of red blood on one day, not a light flow, but I imagine everyone is different.  A lot of pregnant women spot or lightly bleed around the time of expected AF. You could always try testing in a few days!  Good luck!!

[xxkayluhh07xx]

yes i chart but i just started to today for this cycle.. I dont think im preg this time=[.. But to make sure theres nothing wrong and to be able to pin point my ovulation (if its happening) im charting this month and the months that follow.. so if im not ovulating im taking my chart into my gynos.. if i am ovulating.. then i guess its just a matter of time=]

[Jaimee]

Originally Posted by xxkayluhh07xx 

Yeahh i dont know im going to get a BFP this month..i started using fertility friend last night so i can find out if im even ovulating becasue i was on BC that messed up my system alot...

It can take some women up to a year to regulate after the pill.  It took me about 4 cycles, my cousin took about 7 cycles.  Great that you're charting- that will really help take the mystery out of what's going on!

[xxkayluhh07xx]

yes i have alot of problems im concerned with .. so the charting is great.. i have a constant low temp of about 96.40-96.70...ive been charting only for two days tho im on what i think is the last day of my menstrual cycle hopefully.. ive had it for 4 days now so it should be just bout over with.. then i can see if my temp changes any.. but im going to be charting for awhile .. that way i can find out if i have something seriously wrong with melike PCOS or hypothyroidism.. im only 21.. but i have alot of problems=X lol(symptoms)

[xxkayluhh07xx]

also i was on the depo shot from oct08-til like summer or 09..I bled the whole time.. yes the WHOLE time and it made me lose a butt load of hair!! it was nasty taking a shower =[ after i stopped it it took about another4-5 months for my periods to regulate i guess yu could call it.. then last year from about march til prolly june or july i was on the nuva ring.. i didnt see many complications.. until one day i had what you would describe as a cist looking thing (3 of em) down there.. in the same spot my ovaries are located.. i stupidly didnt goto my gyno and have wacked out doctors telling me it was a hernia and another one saying it was swollen glands.. when it plain as day felt like the lil bump everyone as on their wrists... i took out the nuva ring and they slowly went away (it was painful) i never put the nuva ring back in.. so yes its been about a yr since i been off BC and both of them caused me problems.. and i still dont know offically wth those bumps were.. 

[xxkayluhh07xx]

I have a .2 thermal rise today when my period ended... this is normal?

[Jaimee]

I just posted in your new thread. 

[xxkayluhh07xx]

so a lil update: today when i woke up i wasnt bleeding.. so for pretty much i wasnt bleeding for most of the day til this evening now im spotting brown/red.. wth is going on??? im so confused... i should be just NOW like getting ready to start my period.. not just now be over with it and now spotting afterwards which dont happen... 

[Jaimee]

Well, you said you're dealing with a lot of stuff right now from stress to anxiety to regulating from hormonal BC.  So I'm not sure that you can expect your cycles to be totally normal.  Just keep temping and marking down all the bleeding, spotting, cervical fluid, and other symptoms you experience.  It may take a few cycles of charting to see what is going on with your body or it might not!  Only time will tell!  There is a lot of patience and waiting involved with TTC.  But it's all exciting, too!

[xxkayluhh07xx]

yeahh.. i understand that.. i know things can get messed up from stress.. but ive been at the same level of stress for the past like 6 mths.. and my periods ave been pretty reg until now.. and today im spotting a REALLY light tan brown color.. a really light spotting it goes away with one wipe... ive NEVER had this before ever=[ lol im so confused jus cuz its been day 6 of the bleeding/spotting.. and i technically should be starting my period until today or tomorrow

[Jaimee]

Tan suggests older blood just now coming down.  Have you taken another HPT lately just to verify?  Your temps do not suggest pregnancy, but you never know since your bleeding is odd for you.  It could also be breakthrough bleeding from an anovulatory cycle (which usually have erratic temps as well).  If you get a BFN, I think you're just going to have to wait this out for the next few weeks to see what happens with your CF and temps and see if you can catch O the next time.    Sorry it's such a mystery when you really want to know what's happening!