Please do not discuss your child's vaccine status with any one. It is NONE of anyone's business.
I never did. My children are now grown. This was before the HIPAA law. You are now protected by this, so please do not discuss your child's health and any personal decisions you make about it with anyone.
You are going to encounter many people in life who disagree with decisions you make. Choose which ones you are willing to fight over. This decision does not have to be discussed with anyone, so zip it and be proud.
Personally, I have had problems with the secretaries in the elementary schools who do not know anything about the exemptions that are in the law and think they know everything. I bring a copy of the law with me to educate them and then call in the principal and tell him/her that the secretary needs to be brought up to speed. I also have a problem with doctors in the ER who are fishing for a reason to call CPS.
HIPAA has nothing to do with this. HIPAA covers how health information is shared between doctors and insurance companies, mainly.