I am looking for some information, and it goes into the realm of decisions that I know are very personal. So, if any of you who have considered this, are doing it, or have done it in the past are willing to share, I'd be grateful!
Anyway. First of all, I hope the title of the post is not offensive. I've seen that term and some others used, and didn't know what to call it otherwise. So, if I'm wrong, educate me!
My DP and I have gone around deciding who should get pregnant first. We've settled on me because I'm older, and are now thinking about spacing for when she should get pregnant. So for those of you who decided to be pregnant at the same time, what motivated your decision? And if you have already done this, how would you say it went? What was it like to have you both pregnant at the same time, and what was it like to be pregnant and have a newborn?
What do you see as the pros and cons?
I've also thought about the idea of both children potentially being in the same class, and having a harder time explaining their relationship to each other and things like that. If that was something you encountered, how was it?
Anything you'd be willing to share would be great, and if you think of anything else that should play into the decision, let me know!