Ex called to talk to ds. The call lasted 6 minutes (a new record! He hasn't hit 5 minutes in months!). About 90% of the call was ex complaining to ds about how sick he is and how this week is busy for him at work and blah blah blah. Here's how part of the conversation went...
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Ex- "Yeah, I'm really sick. I've been in bed all day watching sports and making my wife bring me food and drinks."
Ds- silence....
Ex- "And I just started sweating a bunch, the fever is probably breaking, but I'm sweating all over my sheets and blankets. I'm going to make my wife change the bed and clean it when I get off the phone with you"
Ds- "Can we hang up now?"
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Gag me please. First of all- ds doesn't care about your sweat. Ewww. Way tmi there. Second of all- please, for the love of all things holy, don't teach my child to be a pig. If you want to treat your wife like that, continue on your way. But that is NOT the way I'm raising my son. He won't MAKE his wife do anything. He can ask politely for her to do something, but he will not MAKE her do anything. Especially clean his sweaty butt. Nasty. It's times like this I want to kiss dh's feet and thank him for being such a good role model for ds. DH would never in a million years say that he's making me do anything. He may ask me to do something, but he never makes me do anything.
OMG! First of all, I couldn't believe he used the phrase "cut you off". Second, I had no clue he was keeping track of how long he talks to ex all this time! LOL!
so at the end of may he's supposed to come here (we've been here almost 4 years and he's never been here to see owen). At the end of june I bring owen to michigan. Rinse and repeat until november 8th when we're back in front of the judge to update him. So ex has to come to kentucky 3 times in the next 6 months or explain to the judge why he didn't.
