Hey all...so 5 1/2 yo DS will be leaving at the end of this month to visit his dad (16 hours and four states away) for five weeks. He visits his dad in CO every couple of months and this will be the first long trip. His paternal grandmother, who lives six hours away from his dad, always comes out and stays with them when DS is there. This trip, DS has informed me, his dad is sending him to Kansas (grandmother's house), six hours away, for a week of the five weeks he'll have him. She is 75ish, lives completely alone, and doesn't have ANY family closer than six hours from her. Ex has said (for attention, I know, but still) on a few occasions that his mother's health is not great, yet he's still sending DS with her for a week without him. I mentioned in an e-mail my serious concerns regarding this setup and he responded back that her health and age should be of no concern to me. What would you do? He leaves in 23 days and I feel like at this point I don't have ANY recourse or ability to stop this from happening. He loves his paternal grandmother but he'll be in a completely new environment for a WEEK with an elderly woman ALONE. *sigh* My heart is SICK right now.