I'm not firing on all cylinders today...Hell for the past few months, but I'm tired today and need some input.
STBX spent last night at his condo, the boys were pretty upset and confused as to why he was leaving after only coming home about 45 minutes ago. We haven't told them and at a social workers recommendation are doing a transitional thing in terms of STBX leaving. I finally got them settled down and my 3yo woke up a couple hours afterwards very upset that daddy wasn't home.
I am so very angry that he goes off and makes a choice to leave based on sex and some reason he can't explain very well himself (He just keeps on saying "You don't understand me" WTFever!!!) and I'm left not only to deal with my broken heart, now I have to deal with the fallout of very confused and upset kids.
My question is, is there any point in telling him that 3yo was very upset last night? Part of me wants to just stick it to him, another part of me is thinking why should I protect him from this fall out, he should know darn well the pain he is causing in our kids and that it's biblically pissing me off, and part of me is like what's the point, he's clearly so wrapped up in himself right now, it won't make much of a difference. Any feedback?