I mostly lurk.
I am incredibly lucky that not circing was an established norm among a bunch of our friends (crunchy and non-crunchy alike) before I had DS 3 years ago and none of my friends has circed since then. I didn't try to convince anyone, but I am very vocal about the path we took to leaving our son intact, and I am a very vocal person.
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I have ended up in a good, but vague convo about circ with a dear friend who is planning on doing it. Since this is an issue I am really passionate about it has been really cool to have the opportunity to discuss it with someone who is planning on doing it but is open to exploring the issue. I realize that I am equipped, having worked through my issues surrounding circ and my husband's issues, to see the "other" side and therefor have a heart-felt response for it. In other words, if someone is worried about cleaning it, I can relate and talk about how I was worried about that and go on to describe my experience having to do absolutely nothing etc. Am I making sense so far?
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There is one thing I don't understand and I am not sure I am willing to Google "pro-circumcision arguments" or whatever to find out. I think it's a common stated reason for RIC: better do it to a baby than later when it would be a more involved procedure and require general anesthesia. My understanding of infant foreskin function/anatomy vs older child/adult function/anatomy leads me to conclude that circumcising a baby is a much more traumatic procedure than circumcising an older boy/man...if circumcision can ever be "less traumatic" my point is, I could easily argue against the "less traumatic" part, even if I'm actually wrong!?? Anyway, it's the anesthesia thing that confounds me...
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Why is it considered okay to perform circ without GA on a newborn. I don't think it's okay. Why is it considered okay? I have some ideas but they are pretty hysterical, or would come off that way, frankly. I want the official, medical rationale.
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Are there other procedures that can be done sans anesthesia on babies that can't be done without going under at 1 year of age? I can't think of one off the top of my head. I feel like I have heard of botched circumcisions being fixed under general at a few months of age...what are the guidelines for the use of general anesthesia for penis surgery or any other procedure?
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Discussing adequate pain control for babies is a very triggery, emotionally charged issue for me, I wonder if I am missing the obvious because of my issues.
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I know for a fact that they feel pain acutely and unlike an adult dont have the mental ability to deal with it like a grown up would.

I was told "they couldn't feel it b/c the sugar distracts them" So I suppose if someone cuts off my clitoral hood real quick while I am watching TV or eating a cookie I wouldn't even feel it right?

