I could really use some advice from other mom's on this..
I have decided that not speaking to my mother is the only way to go at this point..
She is quite a sick person and calls me often to scream at me/ emotionally mess with me and i've just about had it :(
While I wish that we could have a good relationship, it just doesn't seem to be working and I feel that I'm at the point where I have to protect myself from the toxicity and if that means totally cutting off ties,, than I guess so be it...
Of course with tomorrow being mother's day and all I feel sort of obligated to call her/see her... Deep down I really feel resentful that I should have to go out of my way to "honor" her when she doesn't really deserve it! If things were semi-ok I would be happy to, but with the way things have been I just don't feel she deserves it!
Do I stick with my guns and avoid her or do I bend and reach out to her??
Thanks in advance to those who read this and respond!
Happy Mother's Day :)