did the school give you any trouble or agree without much fight? Who provided the computer?
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Writing is becoming a bigger and bigger struggle for ds as the days go on. His therapists/teachers/we believe it's a result of multiple issues- he lacks some hand strength which makes writing hard for him and he more than likely has OCD (undiagnosed at this time) so if his writing isn't "perfect" then he explodes, rips up the paper, freaks out, etc and the whole day is ruined (he also has ASD). This happens on a daily basis (at school and at home). Right now he has a scribe written into his IEP and an adult writes probably half of his answers (he writes numbers usually without incidence so the scribe writes words mostly). For homework I often scribe for him (again, he does all the numbers and I do most words).
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I spoke to his OT (private OT, not the school one), his special ed teacher and one of his regular ed teachers (all at separate times so none of their views were jaded by others) and all of them agreed that at some point he is going to need it in his IEP that he has the use of some sort of computer or word processor or something that he can type answers in instead of writing. His OT says she believes this should be written into his IEP asap instead of waiting. The regular ed teacher said she doesn't understand why it's not already written in his IEP (she agrees with me 100% that we don't care about the writing- it's whether he understands the material that matters to us). His special ed teacher said it should happen "soon", but was pretty vague on when.
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We have an IEP meeting called for later this month (to have it written in his IEP some things that are happening now that are not in his IEP because there are a lot of changes happening next year so we have to make sure our butts are covered and he gets the services he needs before his next yearly review.... in November). I'm thinking of bringing up the computer/word processor issue at this next meeting and seeing what everyone's thoughts are. I'm not sure if I should push for it now or wait until our yearly review in November to push for it. I don't see ds's writing issues getting any better by November and I don't really want him to start off the next grade on a bad foot, ya know?
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Also- who provided the computer? Should the school be the ones providing it? Should we provide one for him? I will buy him a laptop/netbook if I need to, but my concern is that the school (teachers) aren't going to be as concerned with keeping it safe if the school didn't buy it, ya know? DS is not exactly responsible and is likely to lose it if someone isn't reminding him to keep it in a certain place. But if the school bought it then are they more likely to help keep it safe?
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Thanks!







