My almost 3 year old refuses to take a bath. We thought it was just a phase that might blow over in a few days, but now it is getting to the point where he needs a bath. Does anyone have any gentle ideas of how to get him in the tub?
Bath time drama.
Could you make a colorful bubble bath with food dye or something? Or give him washable paint and a paintbrush to paint the shower walls? (wash right away, but all the color comes off) How about filling up a pool outside and letting him play in swim trunks?
Other than that, the only thing I can think is if he has a close cousin or a very close friend that he could take a bath with? Sometimes when my 4 yo is unwilling to try something (even something I know he will really enjoy!) he's more likely to try if he has a friend to do it with.
I think your solution depends on why your kid doesn't want to take a bath.
Is this a new thing? Did he use to like baths? Is this a control thing-- trying to see how much about his world he controls? Or is he afraid of something? Does a bath seem like the end of playing and/or a precursor to bedtime?
If he's afraid, I'd talk to him and try to work out the problem, comfort him and try to find an alternative. Washcloth over eyes when washing hair? Swim goggles? Showers? Mom or sibling or friend in the tub too?
If it's control, let him know that he can have a washcloth bath one night and a regular bath the next night (for example). Let him pick which night is which.
If it's a lack of playing, find some new ways to make it fun. Bath books, toys, crayons, etc... You can make something together and use it to play (wine corks and toothpick boats, for example, and then hold a regatta).
You could also try changing the time of day. Bath first thing in the morning, maybe?
My DS loves to give his toys a "car wash". He'll grab one of his toy cars or tractors and we talk about how dirty it is and that it needs a car wash. He loves it and brings a new toy in the tub. We have a huge dump truck in there now, but we fill it with bubbles and then dump the bubbles.