3 weeks pregnant miscarriage :( trying again, new to site, help plz

[DarnitDani]

Hi my name is Danielle (20) and I am engaged to wonderful man named Scott (22), we have no children other than my little petting zoo, lol. I have a parakeet, chihuahua, tabby cat, 4 fish and a little turtle. I live in Jacksonville, NC on a small ranch with horses, goats and a pig! We are not military which is uncommon around here but I have been trying to get pregnant now for about 6 months I had a miscarriage about 2 weeks ago. I didn't know I was pregnant I just thought I was having a really rough period till the bleeding got out of control and i was in tears about my cramps. I called my Dr and was told to go the emergency room where I was told that I was having a miscarriage and sent home after making sure the bleeding wasn't life threatening and making sure I didn't need a D and C. I was on the Depo shot but haven't been on it for about 3 yrs now and it took about a year and a half for my period to regulate itself. I really want a child so does my fiance we both come from broken backgrounds but have overcome. I feel like being a mother would be the greatest honor in the world and have received a lot of negative feedback with my age, but we can afford a child and I have great health care so I don't see why I shouldn't have a child. I personally feel i would make a great mother and though I have no family on my side his Step Mother and Dad are just wonderful and supportive. (i know I'm going on but idk feel like i shouldn't seem like a stranger to y'all ) I have quite smoking, eating healthy and taking my prenatals. I ordered some Ovulation predictor strips by Wondfo from eBay, I am now bound and determined to become pregnant instead of just having the normal um maritials. I was looking for some support and suggestions and after reading some of the articles and and threads I feel this site is very welcoming. So I guess some advice or supportive would be very welcomed, I guess I am just starting to feel alone around here as many of the girls my age have different priorities or are well honestly I don't find alot of military wives umm nice i guess a lot of the girls around here have a better than you attitude. Not that I am saying anything bad about anyone especially about the military. idk i am rambling lol......

[Ramzubo]

Welcome! So sorry to hear about your loss.

It sounds like you are doing all the right things to prepare for pregnancy. Just keep poking around, there's loads of info on here. There's also a thread for women in there 20's you may be interested in since you don't have a lot of local gals you can relate to. Also if you haven't done any charting that may be helpful. There's a few sites that you can track online, fertility friend is pretty popular.

Good Luck!

[SilaMarila]

 feel free to join the 20's thread when you are ready! My best suggestion and one of the best purchases I have ever made is the book Taking Charge of Your Fertility. Definitely check it out! You will learn SOOO much! Also, the site http://www.fertilityfriend.com has a lot of info about conceiving and getting started charting (if that is the direction you want to go!). Good luck and hope you get that BFP soon!

[DarnitDani]

thank you so much i going to check out that site right now lol!!

[DarnitDani]

I will look into the twenties thread thanks I feel the love already :)