I posted further down what happened last week. But what happened now was, after I posted it to the ICAN group I was on last night, I was urged to call the OB office and let them know because they felt the regular OB I had would not have handled things like this and he would correct the oncall OB and whomever else so it would not happen again. So, I called and ended up speaking to the office manager. Now I want to clarify, there was NO misunderstanding with the conversation with the oncall OB. I was very shocked by what he was saying so I repeated things back, I asked him in multiple ways, the conversation went on for a while. There was no misunderstanding.
The office manager calls me back in the afternoon and informs me that the oncall OB has denied saying what I said he said! I told them I was not going to get in to a he said/she said argument and that I would not ever deal with that lying manipulative doctor again. The office manager seemed shocked by my response and tried to pass it off as a misunderstanding. She is urging me to come in to my appointment on Wednesday, but I don't think so. I am stressed enough over all this and do not think it is healthy to go there, knowing it will likely just be a "who is the liar" here conversation. I had not really expected them to care much, but I did not expect the doctor to lie. I guess, why didn't I expect him to lie? I expected him to defend what he said, but I did not expect him to lie and say he never said it. He must have known what he said was wrong or he would not have lied later and pretended to not say it.
I am very stressed and upset over the whole thing now. I guess for giving birth, my choices now are to go under the chopping block (csect) or an unassisted birth.