i haven't even told dh yet! . took a test saturday am on an internet cheapie, and got a very very faint positive. got super excited and showed it to dh, and he told me i was crazy- no way was that a bfp! took a first response today in private and sure enough, bfp! i want to find a funny way to tell him just because he was so snarky to me yesterday. i think i'm going to wait a day until the line is a little darker and just have dd2 carry the test in to him before dinner or something. we'll probably wait until 10 or so weeks to tell the rest of the family, but i'll tell my boss and co teacher ( i work with 2 year olds, so they will know something is up- it's a hard job while pg) by the end of the week. chances are pretty good my co teacher will blab to everyone at work, but they're all my friends there so it's not a huge deal to me. our family is a ways away, and won't be supportive (well, dh's wont- mine will at least pretend they're happy), so no need to rush into telling them. we aren't married, and this has caused some issues on his side of the family. we're engaged, and made it very clear that SOME DAY we'll get hitched , but that isn't good enough for them. anyway, that's the plan!