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Chat thread - May 9-16

post #1 of 60
Thread Starter 

I noticed that some of the other DDCs have a general chat thread every week where people can post about their latest appointments, moves, new jobs, whatever is going on in their very busy lives. 

 

Really, I just want an excuse to post about my 12 week midwife appointment this morning when I heard the babe's heartbeat for the first time.  I haven't had an ultrasound and don't plan to have one until 18 weeks so it was very exciting and reassuring to hear the heartbeat and have my midwife say that chances are we're in the clear now!  Also, I found out that my second midwife from our first birth is joining our team (she was previously on a different team and just happened to be filling in for our other midwife the day we gave birth).  So all around good news for me today.

 

Hope everyone is having a great week!

post #2 of 60
Thread Starter 

Ha - I realized I posted this in the wrong DDC.  I'm actually due in November.  Sorry guys!

post #3 of 60
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Ha - I realized I posted this in the wrong DDC.  I'm actually due in November.  Sorry guys!



Ha! It's ok! Can we hijack your thread and make it ours though??

 

I was just about to start a thread of chatting or checking in about first appts. I know I started the thread about not having appts but I broke down and asked my midwife for an early dating U/S so we could change my due date. Well, the U/S was today and I was right! EDD has moved by a week now, and we saw a good strong heartbeat and a blobby baby! It was my first trans-vaginal U/S and it was nice that they could see so much more at such an early gestation!

 

Today was also eventful that my M/S that has been here for a week or two got SO MUCH WORSE. Puking and just feeling AWFUL. Ugh. I know I'm still super early but I told DH last night that this is my last pregnancy, I just can't do this again! 

post #4 of 60
I have my first MW appointment on Friday and I will probably ask her for an early u/s as well, I'm 8 wks and super paranoid. I think I'm driving DH crazy. I'm worried/curious that it might be multiples. I've been having horrible nausea, much more than I had with DD and I'm just feeling all around blah. I know that is a good sign that the little bean is doing well, but there is something that I just can't shake, hence wanting the u/s.

Other than that we're just going about our hot lives here in FL. It's officially scorching for my tastes (mountain girl), and I know it is just going to get worse once the humidity really kicks into gear. *sigh* smile.gif
post #5 of 60

This is terrific that we now have a chat threat, even if it was by accident winky.gif

 

I have my twelve week appt next week and I'm going to bring DD with me (she's 2.5) even though we haven't told her about the pregnancy yet. My midwives are dying to see her but typically I don't bring her to any doctors appts so this will be interesting. I wonder if she'll pick up on whats going on...

 

Also, finally I'm feeling the "tiredness" begin to dissipate...that constant sleeping pill feeling finally feels like its wearing off. And I officially cracked out the maternity box from storage this week...and bought a few extra goodies on mothers day for myself!!!!

 

I hope everyone had a great mothers' day!!!!!!!

post #6 of 60

Hey girls,,,,I was oppening mothering.com and thinking how come we don't one tread just to chat about our daily problems,,,Good to find one!

 

I will have my next us on 23th and then 1st trimester screening on 31st,,,,I already saw my baby when I was 7 weeks since I got preg w IUI,,,so three US for me it sounds a lot,,,

 

I got bad cold and I thing now am getting pregnancy alergies,,,not fun at all,,,

 

Karmamaa yesterday I read that little siblings should be informed later on during the pregnancy because for them is very difficult to understand all this pregnancy thing,,,I think showing US may scare her and give unnecesary questions,,,But its everybody's own choice, I would wait,,,

post #7 of 60

Yay, a chat thread!

 

I'm 9.5 weeks over here.. I have an appt with an OB next week (also seeing a MW) to see how everything is. I have a Subchorionic Hematoma, but so far everything is OK. I'm still off and on worried about it though. I had a u/s at 8 weeks and s/he had a great HB, so I am trying to keep my spirits high that everything will be OK.

 

My DF is leaving on Friday to go to Africa for a month, and I have no idea how I am suppose to take it easy with my SCH and 2 energetic toddlers... also, I am going to miss him terribly :(

post #8 of 60

Hi ladies!

 

I have an appt next week, that I'm really excited about.

 

I was diagnosed with strep throat on Monday, so I've been just taking it easy trying to heal from that.. and now the yeast infection that was caused by the antibiotics.. BOO!

 

We found out today that our oldest was accepted into the gifted and talented school.. so now we have to make a decision about that.. and we only have until the 23rd to decide.. EEP!

post #9 of 60

Yay for chat! I've so been needing to chat about pregnancy things. I think my mama avoids my calls now...since I ramble so long! smile.gif

 

I'm at 8 weeks now, and feeling so awful. No vomiting, but I feel nauseas ALL DAY LONG. And I can't stay awake for more than 6 hours. Naps every day--which make me very happy not to have any other children yet! I don't know how you mamas can do it, feeling so yucky for SO LONG, and having to chase babies.

 

I got a little freaked about a brown discharge over the weekend, but thanks to MDC, I quickly learned it's no problem. Oh how I love to find instant answers to my worries.

 

And last week, we had a major drama with MIL. We're doing a UP/UC, as long as all is well, and MIL is very loyal to doctors. She's been asking every single day since we told her of the pregnancy if I had gone to a doctor for confirmation yet. She even sent a $500 check for doctors, in case we didn't have the money (what??)! Finally, DH told her I haven't gone and I won't unless there is a problem. Ensue all kinds of panic. My goodness, she freaked! We had lots of passive-agressive (on her part) talks, and she finally got it that she doesn't get an opinion about this. Now she's moved on to worrying about vaccines and pediatricians. The drama never ends....But at least we've learned to lie a little, if it saves the peace and gets us through it.

 

Also, we're planning to move next spring and start our little homestead, and we've just got news that our former housemates and lovely friends, along with their two young children, might be coming with us! I'm so thrilled to think of raising my children with a dear mama-friend! Fingers crossed it works out!

post #10 of 60

I am soooooo tired of the constant underlying nausea. It's not the horrible sort of vomiting I've had before, it's just a quiet and ongoing ickyness,  That and the inability to stay awake for any length of time have me feeling like a really crummy mom at the moment.  Thank goodness we are 'done' with homeschooling for the year, now we're just doing some laid back experiential stuff to keep things going over the summer. 

 

I'm having a pity-party today. I needed a quick vent.  I'm caught between rejoicing when I have symptoms and feeling miserable, I can't seem to find a middle ground.  Dear second trimester, please hurry up, I want to feel human again. 

post #11 of 60

Insidevoice, I feel very similarly with the constant, underlying nausea.  It's so awful. I wake up in the morning and for about 10 seconds I lie there thinking, wow, I don't feel sick.  And then it starts.  All day, every day.  It's just so awful and has made everything so hard: work, being a good mom, housework.  Ugh.

post #12 of 60

I'm with the two of you.  The nausea is relentless.  It seems like most of my day is spent trying to figure out what I can get in my mouth so that I might feel a little better.  

 

On a good note though, I did have my 9 week ultrasound and heard the heartbeat for the first time today.  The little peanut was wiggling around and had a heartbeat of 184!  It's sort of helping me feel better about what I'm going through.  

post #13 of 60

Yay Wendizbaby - so glad you got to hear the heartbeat - it's very reassuring!

 

AFM, I'm right there with you all and the relentless nausea :( I'm a little sad that since my EDD has been moved by a week that I have that much longer before 2nd trimester and the chances this nausea will GO AWAY! ARGHHHHH

 

So I've been contemplating ways to tell FB, when we're ready. I'm telling most people I see on a day to day basis, like LLL friends and playgroup mamas, etc... but no one I just email or FB with. So I got this idea from a friend and here's what I did last night - I set up a 'fan page' for my baby, but I haven't published it yet and only myself and my DH are admins and can see it/post on it. I'm planning on posting on it, adding pictures, whatever.. and then when we're ready I'll just publish it or invite people to 'like' it or whatever... how dorky and fun is that?! I'm excited! but I'm so nervous it'll get published by accident! I'm paranoid about that kind of thing though, when I have a personal conversation I hold my cell phone and make sure it's off every 30 seconds! I'm so scared I'll call someone and they'll hear me saying something awful lol.gif

post #14 of 60
I'm counting down the days until the 31st, which is when I have my first appt with my MW, I'll be 10 weeks, and we should hear a HB. I'm trying to keep hold of THAT thought. "We should hear a heart beat" instead of "what will we do if we don't hear a heartbeat?" Sigh. I'm such a planner, and this waiting period is really hard for me. I want to make some plans, I want to write how many weeks I am in the calendar, all the way up to 40, I want to buy a Pregnancy journal... but I don't want to do that if we're just going to end this one with heartache. So. I wait.
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Originally Posted by Lega View Post

Hey girls,,,,I was oppening mothering.com and thinking how come we don't one tread just to chat about our daily problems,,,Good to find one!

 

I will have my next us on 23th and then 1st trimester screening on 31st,,,,I already saw my baby when I was 7 weeks since I got preg w IUI,,,so three US for me it sounds a lot,,,

 

I got bad cold and I thing now am getting pregnancy alergies,,,not fun at all,,,

 

Karmamaa yesterday I read that little siblings should be informed later on during the pregnancy because for them is very difficult to understand all this pregnancy thing,,,I think showing US may scare her and give unnecesary questions,,,But its everybody's own choice, I would wait,,,



I have also already had 2 US and I have another one a week from monday. I have taken my 4 year old to all of my appointments, I do not really have someone to watch her. And she has done great. She gets really excited to see the baby on the TV. But she is much older. I will tell you i have always taken her to appointments her whole life though so she is definately used to my OB and all my other doctors. She even goes to the dentist with me while the drill and make loud noises so the VagUS did not bother her. Since the other little girl has never been to an appointment it may upset her, but I don't think it will.

 

post #16 of 60
I am so relieved after my ultrasound this morning, which was ordered after my old midwife thought she found two separate heartbeats, I.e. Twins again.
But no, just one cute little wiggly bean, measuring right on at 9w3d joy.gif
I mean, twins are a blessing for sure, but I've BTDT and man, it was really, really hard sometimes, not to mention that my birth plans would have been way more complicated w/ no insurance and no home birth providers doing twins in my area.

So whew! I'm happy to share my one baby news, and excited to just relax into this pregnancy...
post #17 of 60
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I am so relieved after my ultrasound this morning, which was ordered after my old midwife thought she found two separate heartbeats, I.e. Twins again.
But no, just one cute little wiggly bean, measuring right on at 9w3d joy.gif
I mean, twins are a blessing for sure, but I've BTDT and man, it was really, really hard sometimes, not to mention that my birth plans would have been way more complicated w/ no insurance and no home birth providers doing twins in my area.

So whew! I'm happy to share my one baby news, and excited to just relax into this pregnancy...


Yay! That's great news! Congrats!!

 

Ummmm.... so I'm feeling really guilty - I have AWFUL M/S today and I'm watching another little boy (4yo) and I feel like the worst babysitter, I'm letting the boys (the 4yo and my 2yo DS) totally wreck the house, and now they're watching their 2nd episode of Dora  bag.gif  I'm counting down the minutes until naptime. for all of us! 

 

post #18 of 60
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Yay! That's great news! Congrats!!

 

Ummmm.... so I'm feeling really guilty - I have AWFUL M/S today and I'm watching another little boy (4yo) and I feel like the worst babysitter, I'm letting the boys (the 4yo and my 2yo DS) totally wreck the house, and now they're watching their 2nd episode of Dora  bag.gif  I'm counting down the minutes until naptime. for all of us! 

 


My little ones are sleeping and my nine year old (we homeschool- though we are technically done for the year) is watching Monty Python.  I'm only awake right now because I ate the same breakfast i gave them and I feel too nauseous to lie down.  I keep waiting to climb out of the sleepy/queasy lazy-mom funk.  Guilt indeed. 

 

post #19 of 60

Hi,,,am still fighting the cold or what it is,,,now my nose got so congested I cant breath true one side. When this all will end?? I never had family doc and now try to find one,,,called several places and they either don't take new patiens or have openings for July,,,

 

I probably will have DH family come over next week for his birthday party,,,I don't have big bump or any other symptoms yet but old good aunties eye may notice something,,,I guess I will go with the flow since we would like keep it quite till 12 weeks....Now I try to find out how to surprise my own family who is far away,,,thinking get them all together and do skype session maybe?I would like to tell everyone in person but it maybe difficult...

post #20 of 60

think I might be feeling better.  Maybe.  Don't want to jinx it, but the last few days have been better.  There IS a light at the end of the tunnel!!  jumpers.gif

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