My daughter and I also survived preeclampsia. She was born at 29w weighing 2lbs 3oz.
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There are some things I wish I had know during my pregnancy and some things I would have done differently:
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I had some early symptoms at 23w, sudden violent vomiting, terrible headache, BP rising to 130/85. My midwives had me go for blood work which came back clear. They told me it was not pre-e and that I was probably just a nervous first time mom who needed to relax, take it easy, and get more calcium. At my routine appointment a month later my BP was 160/100, my urine was +2 for protein, and blood work showed elevated liver enzymes.
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I really wanted to believe that I was fine and because of that I think I was not as proactive about my care as I should have been. In retrospect I should have:
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Asked to come in every week for a BP check
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Brought my home BP machine in and made sure I was using it correctly (I got wildly inconsistent results and home and often found some reason to discount the high readings)
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Made sure that my care providers were talking to each other. I was also seeing an MFM for growth scans because of a separate health issue. Around the time that I had my initial pre-e symptoms, my baby also started showing signs of IUGR. I don't think the MFM ever knew that I had had pre-e symptoms. They also never took my BP at appointments. Typical of health care in the US, I was receiving a lot of care, but no one was looking at my case holistically.
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Understood that pre-e can present in wildly different ways. As I got sicker I had fewer symptoms. I had severe pre-e without headache, vomiting, or swelling. I had elevated liver enzymes without any pain. My only real symptom at the time I delivered was tiredness.
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Known that anyone who says all cases of pre-e can be cured with diet and/or supplements is a hack who is putting the lives of women at risk.Â
Edited by maryeliz - 5/13/11 at 6:24am