I've been saying I'm no going to find out.
But I've been having a really hard time connecting to this baby and being "into" this pregnancy. I'm super Type A, and when something unplanned happens, least of all something huge like a pregnancy at the absolute wrong time, I tend to sulk about it. My midwife suggested we find out the sex of the baby to help us bond.
Right from the get-go, I've had very strong "girl" vibes, but lately I've second guessed it. Same as I did with Lyra. All the dreams I've had the baby is a boy (but in all my dreams, Lyra was a boy, too. Except once when she was kittens)
So I think I'll have the tech write down the sex on a piece of paper and I'll open it at home, on my own turf, when I'm ready. Our ultrasound is on the 6th