I've been avoiding posting because I feel like this is too large and complex an issue for me to really put it all into a coherent post, but I'm not finding much of anything useful online and the only doctor I have a remotely trusting relationship with is on vacation for a couple of weeks yet, so I'll try.
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Okay, "the beginning" is probably about a year ago when our doctor suggested trying an elimination diet to help with my assorted health problems and we found that both I and my now 3 1/2 year old daughter are gluten intolerant. We opted to just eliminate gluten rather than continuing with ill health to undergo a frustrating and potentially unhelpful round of testing, but since neither of us really had gastrointestinal symptoms to speak of, I've been assuming that it's a non-celiac intolerance. I recognize that that isn't exactly a scientific analysis.
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Fast forward to two months ago when my son was born. I was very alert for possible food sensitivities after our experience with our daughter (mainly, she had extreme difficulty sleeping and was chronically sleep deprived--as were the rest of us, of course), so when he started getting fussier and congested with darkish green poop at a couple weeks old, I took out dairy as being the usual most likely suspect. He improved for a couple of weeks, so I challenged dairy and the symptoms returned. I took it out, he improved again, and I briefly thought I had the problem licked. But then a couple of weeks later, the symptoms returned--congestion, fussier, screaming all afternoon and early evening sometimes, poop so dark green it looks like the "jungle green" crayon in the Crayola box, and occasional burgundy streaks and dots in his poop--blood. Also, his baby acne kept getting worse instead of better, and scaly spots started to develop on his cheeks and forehead. So I called the doctor and made an appointment that, as noted, won't be for over a week yet, and we took the entire top eight allergens out of my diet (augh!!!). His face started clearing after only a few days, and his poop lightened back to a mustard/lightish green, with no blood that I've noticed, and less fussiness for the last couple of days (Thank goodness!).Â
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But NOW I see perhaps the scariest thing yet--his poop is now definitely oily. Sometimes it's like an oily sheen, sometimes it's got big streaks of oil like the top of a pot of chicken broth. All I can pester out of the internet so far is that this is a sign of malabsorption of nutrients, often associated with either cystic fibrosis or celiac. I confess, since I didn't even know what CS was 'til now, and it's clearly not a family problem, I haven't felt very worried about that possibility. Celiac? I don't know...I mean, does that even make sense, given that I don't eat gluten? I mean, my reaction isn't severe, so I haven't been super-fussy about possible cross-contamination, say, but still, pretty much zero gluten during his whole gestation and life to date.
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Does anyone have any good websites/book recommendations/personal experiences that might shed light on this? Like so many of us, I feel like I'm dealing with way too much information with way too little help, and it seems like every time I get things moving in the right direction, a new problem crops up.







 But I would say it never goes more than, say, half a foot at most, usually much less.
I'm so sorry, I know it is hard!