I typically don't enter into debates on forums (or is it fora?). I like to give advice and answer questions, but don't have much time to go back and forth. But I will expand a little on this topic.
I am completely aware and sensitive to people's opinions on circumcision. I chose not to have my three boys circumcized. In fact, I looked at it as not even making a choice. They were born intact. God made them that way, and I saw no reason to change it. God's reasons for wanting His chosen Jewish people circumsized are His own. So, I'm very much in agreement with you that not circumcizing is the best way to go.
The next area of debate is whether or not circumcision is actually wrong. As a christian, I have to acknowledge that because God demanded it of His people, then there must be something inherently ok about it. However, I'm not a Bible scholar so to speak, so I haven't reviewed every scripture on it. But even so, I agree that it isn't necessarily ok to surgically alter infants without their consent. That's why I try to talk patients out of it. I tell parents reasons why they shouldn't do it, and I make it very very very clear that there is no benefit to doing it.
I spent years trying to decide whether or not to do circumcision on patients. I initially decided no. I referred them to the other doctors in the practice. But then the other docs stopped going to the hospitals to see babies and I was the only one. So, I'd have to refer any patients that wanted it to OTHER doctors, and I was seeing some not-very-well-done circumcisions, and some really bad ones. some doctors remove WAY too much foreskin. So, I decided to begin doing them for the select few of my patients who wanted it. I wasn't actually saving any kids from it by NOT doing it. I never even once had a patient say, "Gosh, since Dr. Bob doesn't even do it, maybe we shouldn't do it." I wanted to make sure it was done right, WITH ANESTHESIA. I also prefer to slightly under-circumsize, leaving as much of the foreskin on as I can.
So, that's my story. You don't have to like it. You don't have to like me. I'll be here one way or the other. BUT I do understand the issues and I mostly feel the same way you do.