I am almost 16 weeks now, and keep feeling drawn to UC/UP. DH is not comfortable though, and our midwives are so cool it seems silly to convince him, actually I am not wholly confident that a complete UC/UP because I tend to bleed a lot PP. With my first, a midwife attended hospital water birth, I PP hemorraged, had a seizure, and went into shock, couldn't get IV fluids in me, and had to call in an anesthesiologist to find a vein. They wanted to give me a blood transfusion but I declined. Scared the living daylights out of DH, it took some convincing to get him on board with a midwife attended homebirth with our second, but now he is very excited about having this one at home. Of course I bled quite a bit with my second too and passed out after that birth for a few minutes, but nothing like the first time.
Then I am O- and he is O+, but both our girls were O-, so it is possible I may need Rhogam after this birth.
I guess I am just trying to figure out what my mama intuition is telling me this time around. First time I wanted a homebirth, but felt I needed to be in a hospital setting although I didn't know why at the time. Second time I knew I needed to stay home. This time I am feeling like medical attendants are superfluous, and it's kind of expensive to pay someone to tell me things already know.
Just thinking, and wondering how this birth may turn out, although I know I have a while yet to go : )