Sigh, I think I need a new ped.
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I'm seeing Glazener right now on the advice of a midwife; we needed someone okay with not vaxing due to my own history of reactions. Â We've seen him once for an illness and for our 4 month well baby. Â The illness visit was actually great - he didn't want to medicate right away, was reassuring and gave some good tips. Â
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Then the 4 month - wow. Â He was downright judge-y about our cosleeping, very concerned about his night waking even though we are all rested and happy (ahem, thanks to the cosleeping). Â He was also concerned about his frequency of feeding in general (DS likes to graze...he can go long stretches, but prefers tiny five minute hourly feeds). Â There were a few red flags when solids came up..."He has to get used to a spoon, don't worry if he spits everything out" and of course, recommending rice cereal first.
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All of that I can deal with, given his vax flexibility, but later I was reading his standard 4 month handout - yikes. Â His recommended nutrition for a 4 month old was some number of ounces of formula, like 2 tbsp rice cereal, and apple juice. Â No mention of breastmilk whatsoever. Â Formula, cereal, apple juice. Â
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My concern is really just that at some point he's going to be really discouraging about breastfeeding. Â I want support for extended breastfeeding, I don't want him telling me at our 12 month that it's time to wean. Â I of course could just ignore the advice I don't like, but I really would like to have a good working relationship and feel like I can trust his advice when DS is sick. Â
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So, I've heard good things about Tree House in Round Rock, but that's a bit far for me. Â Not for a well-baby, but I can't imagine putting a sick baby in the car for 40 minutes each way. Â I've also heard good things about Eliot Trestor, but Central Family doesn't take insurance and that's a deal breaker...unless I really just can't find anyone else. Â Then I guess I'll suck it up.
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Anyway, who knows of a vax flexible supporter of extended breastfeeding? Â General acceptance of AP is a big bonus. Â His 6 month is in two weeks; I'm crossing my fingers that there won't be resistance when he asks how solids are going and I tell him we haven't started...should I really be the one explaining independent sitting and pincher grasps to a doctor??
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