well, I was told just that ...by a family member I like/I get a long with/who has respect for me etc ...
... that it was worrying her that I would start so many things without finishing etc ...
for a while it worried me
I wasn't upset as how she had presented her concern
just in case really it was some serious flaw in me ....
but then, one day last spring, I just picked out some craft project that was only 80% completed .... and that had sad there for about 12 years maybe ?
and during a playdate in a park with another mom, I finished it whilst talking with her
and now I can use that object frequently, AND I have the momory of the nice time spent in the park talking, each time I pick up the object
so now i worry less about unfinished things
(unless space for storing stuff is really becoming an issue)
because I feel that one day 'the time will be right" for me to effortlessly finish whatever I will put my mind to finish
and it's also the way I work around my home, when I have household chores that need doing, I can rarely start one, finish it then start another one
I usually end up starting many tasks one after the other, just because I suddently thought that this needed doing too
and it feels strange in the middle of it when all is started and nothing is finished
but then, as long as I manage to finish what I thought needed doing .... the order in which it was done ... not so important anymore ....
also it's something to do with allowing onself the right to change one's mind over time
we don't have to always like the same things over and over ...