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Originally Posted by
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Yes, it IS typical that the numbers go up before going back down. Â Remember that the numbers means nothing as to if and how bad a reaction will be though so keep hope! Â There are only a few times the numbers really mean anything significant (PPV's are only know for a few food). Â
How old is your DD? Â Hang in there!
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She will be 4 in September. She is keenly aware of her allergies even advocates for herself. She will tell people what she is allergic to, will ask if I can read the "directions" (the ingredients). And while she has been very good about it, the older she gets the more she knows she is different and the more she feels things are fair, etc. I feel bad for her. I am terrified any time there is a new experience, or a birthday party at someone's house. I can't drop her off anywhere, I have to stay right with her as I can't expect someone else's parent to know what is safe or not and to know when or how to give benadryl or her epi-pen. At school she has to have her own snacks. She can't eat with the other kids. She is so limited.
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I was really hoping that the numbers would be going down as the allergist said that would be the indication of her outgrowing an allergy. We only have a little over a year before she is 5. I was really hoping that by 5 she would out grow something. But to me that seems very unlikely.
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In addition I am going through a divorce and they have substantial visitation time with their father who is living with his parents. Who doesn't take the allergies seriously. He does not always have her epi-pen and benadryl and him and probably doesn't even know her benadryl dosage or how to do the epi pen or when to use either one. He takes her places where nuts are prominent and his parents keep nuts out in bowls for guests. He feeds my other daughter peanut butter right next to my 3 year old. He refuses to use a separate toaster for her stuff, and uses his parents toaster that is used for everyone for everything. I am terrified for her safety, but everyone just blows me off. I have actually been told by someone that he is learning (since I handled everything before), and there may be some mistakes along the way and after she has a couple of allergic reactions, maybe he will learn. They don't understand that even 1 allergic reaction would mean that she could die.
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So I guess I was just hoping with every bit of my soul that her allergies were improving. I am sorry I have been so whiny here and I do know that there are plenty of you here that have it much worse than we do.
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