I found out today one of my twins died sometime between 14 and 17 weeks. Everything looked great at 14 weeks and today at 17 one had died. We're still trying to deal with the ramifications of all this. How do we grieve one and still be excited for the other one? I guess I'm still in shock.
We were so excited about having twins. I've had 2 other miscarriages, but they were both before any heartbeat. With the twins, we saw the hearts beating and saw them both moving around like crazy on several ultrasounds...this is quite a blow for us (or at least for me, I'm not sure how DH is taking it...he's kind of acting like nothing happened but that isn't unusual for him).