OMG, I'm blending~Or not? BF got cold feet? Advice? - Page 2

[2lilsweetfoxes]

Are you able to stay in your current house or are you now jumping through hoops to find a new place before the lease is up?

[Phoenix~Mama]

I live with my parents.  Not the most ideal situation... but I can stay here indefinitely.  (not that I want to :P ) lol   But that's my only viable option at the moment financially.

[SoulCakes]

Originally Posted by Phoenix~Mama 

We both listened to each other and are moving forward with the goal of a stronger foundation for our future.  Again... can't really fault him for wanting to do the right thing.

This might even be a good thing, in the long run. I'd be more wary of a man who rushed in with no doubts at all than someone who realizes -- oh sh*t! -- that maybe it was just too soon. Not great timing, no, but ultimately the grown-up thing to do.

Good luck, PM. I know you don't want to stay in your parents' house, but it's better than realizing you made a mistake and having to move right back out again.  

[Super~Single~Mama]

I'm not convinced, but I'm not the one who has to be.  Something just doesn't seem *right* about the whole thing.  Just a hunch though, can't quite put my finger on it.  I hope things work out for you, you know I'm one of your biggest supporters!!

[rubelin]

I'm sorry 'bout the timing of this, but glad you're having the opportunity to work through these issues now. Your situation reminds me of Ms. Single Momma http://mssinglemama.com/  she was engaged and they bought a house together and then he freaked out and they broke up for a while but recently they worked through some things and started dating again. You might find some inspiration from her blog =)

[Phoenix~Mama]

Thank you,  Rubelin!  I found her "Love & Rear view mirrors" entry.  It really spoke to me.  :-)

[~Charlie's~Angel~]

I'll box you for first place.....DUKES UP!!!  Haha, just kidding.

 

Originally Posted by Super~Single~Mama 

  I hope things work out for you, you know I'm one of your biggest supporters!!

[Phoenix~Mama]

lol  *hugs to Gina and SSMama*  You ladies have been so amazing to me over the last couple of years.  :D  You are good friends.  :D

[rubelin]

Originally Posted by Phoenix~Mama 

Thank you,  Rubelin!  I found her "Love & Rear view mirrors" entry.  It really spoke to me.  :-)

Yeah, that's the one I was thinking of =)

[pinksprklybarefoot]

Originally Posted by Super~Single~Mama 

I'm not convinced, but I'm not the one who has to be.  Something just doesn't seem *right* about the whole thing.  Just a hunch though, can't quite put my finger on it.  I hope things work out for you, you know I'm one of your biggest supporters!!

Me, too, on this.

I sooooooooo want things to work out for you!