Are you able to stay in your current house or are you now jumping through hoops to find a new place before the lease is up?
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This might even be a good thing, in the long run. I'd be more wary of a man who rushed in with no doubts at all than someone who realizes -- oh sh*t! -- that maybe it was just too soon. Not great timing, no, but ultimately the grown-up thing to do.
Good luck, PM. I know you don't want to stay in your parents' house, but it's better than realizing you made a mistake and having to move right back out again.
I'm sorry 'bout the timing of this, but glad you're having the opportunity to work through these issues now. Your situation reminds me of Ms. Single Momma http://mssinglemama.com/ she was engaged and they bought a house together and then he freaked out and they broke up for a while but recently they worked through some things and started dating again. You might find some inspiration from her blog =)
Me, too, on this.
I sooooooooo want things to work out for you!