I dont know if many threads have been posted on this topic before but when I married my husband I really did have good intentions of getting along with his mother. I get that she is very important to him and so forth so I have tried my best to create a relationship with her as well but I feel like I am hitting a darn brick wall everytime I try. I tried to be open with her like I am with my own mother and that ended up backfiring in my face like I never could believe. She ended up saying some really nasty things the the rest of the family (Supposedly not intentional) but still really hurt regardless.
Anyways we moved in with her a while back (to save money and before any of that other stuff had happened) and she lived alone so it sounded like a great thing just till my husbands career gets off the ground and we can afford our own place. She comes home and most the time doesnt acknowledge that I'm here and when she does its in a snotty tone ( Which DH has informed me "thats just the way she is"). I guess I'm not used to it and it really does hurt my feelings. But as if that wasnt enough today (I'm a SAHM hence why Im posting on this board) I went to go clean some dishes and the water didnt come on. Thinking logically I assume a water main break, praying it wasnt in our house. As I'm searching around I didnt find anything suspicious so I go to walk over to the neighbors to ask them if their water was working and there was a notice on the door that our water had been past due for at least two months so they turned it off. She has been paying the bills (doesnt want us to help because hubby hasnt had a really stable job yet and been living on unemployment but we still has enough to help out for something like this). I am beyond livid because Im here all day with the kids and no vehicle and yet she didnt bother to tell me or DH this. Sorry this is so long but my question is am I wrong to feel this upset that she didnt tell us something like this especially when we have two young kids in the house?