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Originally Posted by
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 I guess I feel like if they were all 99%tile, I could march in there and say, "Look, clearly his needs are not being met where he is", but I feel like they will say he should just work harder on the areas where he could improve, ya know?
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Both my kids received accommodations when they attended public school, and both have accommodations in the private school they attend now. (One is just gifted, the other is gifted and on the autism spectrum). The way one request accommodations in public school when the issue is special needs is to write a letter -- a real letter with a date and a signature -- clearly stating the request and the reason for the request. This is a legal step in the process.
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To me, it makes sense to the the exact same thing, even though your situation isn't a legal process (both because it's a private school and because it is a gifted issue).
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Just write a polite letter. There's no need for marching and demanding. Here's something to help you get started.
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Re: Accelerating DS for Math
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I'm concerned about DS's math instruction, and am requesting that the school consider accelerating him one grade level for math next year. Not only has he consistently made As, he is not putting an any effort at all to get those As. I believe that being challenged in would be very helpful very him because _____________________________. I feel that his scores on the recent Terra Nova back up such a move.
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I would advocate for math, rather than reading instruction because my guess is that he would get more out of it. I suspect that reading class one level up still wouldn't give him much challenge, it would just be reading different things that are still quite easy, and he can easily read more challenging things on his own time. My guess is that the two biggest hurdles with be:
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1. the schedule. Not all the classes do the same subject at the same time, and some schools/teachers HATE to coordinate having two classes do math at the same time. (or refuse to do it because there are so many other demands on the schedule with special classes, kids in pullouts for extra help, etc.
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2. concerns over what will happen his last year in the school. If, for example, the school goes through 6th grade and he does 6th grade math in 5th, what will be the plan for the year he is in 6th?
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I suspect that these are things that will cause the biggest issues with the school, not that fact that he *only* got 70% on language mechanics:.