I've been trying to figure this out and I was hoping you could help me! My oldest is almost 11, and I swear he has never had a formed stool (sorry). I've brought this up at countless visits with several different pediatricians, and have just been told "well that's just normal for him then". I try to convince myself that must be the case, but I have lots of different things in mind.
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I have ulcerative colitis- it was diagnosed when I was 18. I've been in remission for a nice long time now, so I'm doing very well. Two of my maternal uncles also have a diagnosis of colitis. And one uncle and a cousin of mine have Crohn's disease. I know IBD runs in families, and I have the family to prove that!
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My son gets lots of unexplained stomach aches. At one point, he was being treated with Zantac for reflux, but that didn't seem to help. He is a strong, healthy looking boy, and I think that's the reason I can't get the pediatrician to take my concerns seriously. Last year, she told me "all kinds of invasive tests" would need to be ordered to rule out IBD, and I "wouldn't want to do that". I know she's talking about scopes of various kinds, and I've had them myself. It's no fun, and I wouldn't put him through that if I didn't think there were a problem.Â
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Would you push for testing? Is it that important to get a diagnosis? In the past, I've followed the specific carbohydrate diet to get my illness under control. Do you think he could follow that with me and start feeling better? At that point, would I even need to know what his exact problem is? And am I just worrying about nothing??Â
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Thank you! I appreciate your feedback!









