Thanks so much for the ideas! I definitely was freaked out by the lack of pooping, but I am pretty convinced she's ok. She is regularly going 2-3 days in between huge blowouts and has been less gassy lately because I've tried a couple of things... You're absolutely 100% correct about me having an overactive letdown. I had assumed every single nursing mother had milk that sprayed everywhere and made their baby choke and cough! Not true, come to find out. So, I've tried block feeding to a lot of success. It did make my milk supply go down a bit too far at first and so she had a day where she was on constantly to build it back up, but then it came back and was more regulated. I still have a pretty intense letdown - I can feel it and it still will often spray out - plus, I usually have 2-3 letdowns per feeding.
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When she cluster feeds (which she quite often does) and really empties my breasts, she doesn't click or break suction. I've noticed a few things about the clicks and suction loss, which might help you too, if that's what is going on with your son. One is definitely when my milk is letting down - when I feel it about to let down, I gently take her off the breast and let it spray into a cloth or towel, then, because she's upset at being taken off, she'll really get a good latch and finish the breast off pretty comfortably. Two is when she's already nursed and is pretty full but wants to keep nursing for comfort. Then I swear she does it because she's annoyed by me continuing to have milk - I'm wondering if she might want a pacifier or be a thumb sucker at some point. The other thing that happens is sort of like she is semi-hungry but now that she can see so well, she gets distracted and will pop off and on the breast because she's looking around.
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I've had a LLL leader, a nurse and an LC say it really really is ok for EBF babies to go for a while without pooping. It's an individual baby thing, I know, but one nurse said a baby went 20 days once and was completely healthy and fine. Now THAT would freak me out. My first DD was the opposite - she would poop after every feeding and I used to think she was ill because of that! I think metabolism might play a part too. Is your son not gaining weight or seeming really uncomfortable? I think the issue with tongue tie is that they become really inefficient nursers and tend to not get as much sustenance and so tend to not gain as much as they should. My DD was 8 lbs, 5 oz when she left the hospital and was up to 9 lbs 14 oz at her two week checkup and she continues to outgrow her clothes, so I'm not too worried that she's not getting enough. I'm also pretty certain the pediatrician in the hospital checked her for tongue tie (under the tongue, correct?) - I was so sleepy I can't remember everything he said at 3am!!! :) She has her 2 month at the end of the month, though, and I'll definitely ask about it because it's something I hadn't even thought of!
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Oh, quick tip that seemed to help my DD poop - my sister is a massage therapist and she showed me a tummy massage that worked within two hours! You take two fingers and massage gently in a clockwise direction around their belly button for a few minutes. It should be gentle pressure but enough to move the skin. I think my DD liked it too! I'm doing this on day 2 with no poop and it's been working great! It works on grownups too (hehehe).Â
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I'm going to look into probiotics, for sure. I regularly eat lots of plain organic yogurt, but I'll ask my doctor about supplements. We have an amazing family doc and it's really cool that my DD's and I both go to the same guy! Thanks again so much for the reply! I love hearing people's ideas.