I guess what my question really is, is that when do you REALLY know that you're done? My girls are only 3 and 12 mo. but I'm feeling so done. The funny thing is that about 6 mo ago I was really thinking that I wanted a third, but since DD1 hit the awful 3 yr old stage and DD2 is now almost walking and into everything I'm feeling like I'm going to pull my hair out on a daily basis.
We know that DH will get a vasectomy when we're done, and I'm saying to him-do it now! But he's a little freaked out by the procedure and not ready yet. i haven't got my cycles back, but I didn't have them back when I got pregnant with DD2 either, so I'm really paranoid.
I'm not a huge fan of any hormonal BC, but I'm not sure what to do at this point.
So, how soon after your last was born did DH get a vasectomy? Do you regret it? Am I just in the middle of a hard phase and should wait it out before making any permanent decisions?
Agghh, so many questions!!!! IF you have any thoughts I'd really appreciate to hear them.
Thanks so much!!