DDDC as well. I couldn't read and not respond. I can only imagine the hell you are going through right now, the pain of losing a child is excruciating at any stage. I hope you find a gentle way through this and are surrounded by people who don't pass judgment on your choice.
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DDCC. I am so sorry that you ended up with this news. I really don't think there is any "wrong" decision in a situation like this, and I hope/pray that nobody gives you a hard time about it in real life or in pm's. I wish you peace in coming to a decision that feels right to you and your family. You'll be in my thoughts.
I am so so sorry. What a horrible decision to have to make. My first child was diagnosed with a heart defect at my 18 week ultrasound, and a week or so later developed fetal hyprops, incompatible with life. I faced a similar decision. She passed away at 22 weeks, I was induced a day later and delivered her stillborn shortly after. Losing a child no matter the age is the absolute worst thing any mother could go through, and no mother should ever have to. I am crying for you. I am so sorry. I feel oddly fortunate that I didn't have to make the decision, it was made for me, although I feel weird saying that. I would like to share with you a community called the MISS Foundation. www.missfoundation.org. I found a support group in my area, and was involved in the online community as well. I was very involved for a long time, and found it extremely helpful to talk to other women and men who had walked a similar path and survived. Again, I am so so sorry .
Dang I was hoping they were wrong. I am so sorry hun. There is no real "right" choice just what is best for you and your family. None of the choices in front of you are easy nor any ones business what you decide to do. I wish I could just hug you. I hope you have many people around you full of strength and understanding that you need right now.
Ohhh, I'm so so sorry that you are faced with this experience...how painful and heartbreaking. May you find peace and comfort as you grieve the loss of your sweet baby, whatever your decision. I don't think there is a right or wrong decision. It's what feels most comfortable for you and your partner. You'll be in my thoughts. Holding you up in warm light and love