Yes. A friend said to me jokingly, but directly: You're lazy. The irony is that she is a SAHM herself but yes she has the money and can live comfortably off of her husband's income. I am still friends with her in spite of it because she had a v. horrible and tragic thing happen to her. Not death, but something that you would see only on tv shows or the movies and maybe she said it because of her frame of mind. I know she hasn't said anything else that would make me feel that. She is v. calm and composed but I still want to put it behind me and be supportive to her in her situation. This one I haven't been able to completely forgive though. My inlaws asked me to find work and that they would help out by watching dd. They are retired. I began working part time. Whenever there was work I was given an assignement. Not elaborating on what work it was. A few months later, they spoke to dh and told him they weren't going to be able to watch dd anymore because they had taken on the duty of watching another grandchild instead.
Edited by Neera - 6/27/11 at 1:47pm