Summer IVF Thread - Let the Sun shine through all of usl!!! - Page 8

[alphahen]

Just heard from the doc this AM. Eight eggs were retrieved yesterday and five have fertilized.  Not the best numbers to work with but we will take it.  Now we just have to wait until first thing Monday  to make the call on Day 3 for Day 5 transfer.  I am praying I have time to get in my acupuncture sessions if it does end up being on Monday.  I have really come to rely on those to keep me sane through all of this!!

Until then, we are hanging in there and hoping for the best ...

Happy weekend to everyone.

[blueyezz4]

Alphahen - sending lots of positive vibes to your eggies!!!  Keep us posted!!!

Holy cow!!! It was kinda a long night, but we survived. My DH took the new "baby" Abigail (Abby) over to see some friends and drop some stuff off, so that way I had some time to myself to get some stuff done around the house and take a shower!!  I think we were up 5 times last night (DH-2 Me-3) b/c of her crying and pretty much everytime she cried after being asleep for about an hour we would come down and let her out and she would pee in the yard like a pro.  The most she cried was off and on for maybe 15-20 mins and the last time I came down to let her out and then we played a little at like 4am in the morning I put her back in her create and she cried for like 4 mins and then was off to sleep.  When I got up to feed her this morning and then she did her business I took her up to our bed (rule breaker) and she was sooooooo happy to lay between us under the sheets and fell asleep like a baby for almost an hour or more.  We will see.  Hope that tonight will be better, I think it will.  She is all over the place, but so smart.  She can climb the stairs already and she has no fear and jumps off the couch already too.  She knows where her bowls are and is already doing a pretty good job at playing fetch, we just have to work on the give part.  I'll try to post another pic here, but you will notice I changed my profile pic to her side profile!  She is a keeper and we are in LOVE!!  Sorry about the devil eyes, but she is still cute and looks really big but is actually smaller than I expected.

[Kewpie80]

alphahen - Sending growing vibes to your eggies!!!  

blue - she's ADORABLE!  Please give her a kiss and scratch from me!

[Keria]

Alphahen 5 is great I had 4 fertilized eggs, crossing my fingers that all your little embies grow perfectly.

Blue she is os cute I want to rub her belly puppies bellies are the softest and she does look gigantic.

[aprilmom]

Can you add me?  We are going for our consult on July 12th (we have already done all the tests and it is just a formality to get 'on the books')

[blueyezz4]

Aprilmom - You've been added.  I just put you under the waiting area and once you get start on meds just let me know.  Sorry to have to meet you here, but it is a great group of ladies so hopefully that will make your time with us go a little faster and answer all of your questions.  Is going to be your first IVF?  Have you been doing anything else before this?  Anyways, Welcome again!!

Kewpie - thanks!! She is very precious!  She is sleeping on my lap right now as I type this just knocked out.  It seems right before she gets really tired she has this bust of energy and gets in this biting mood.  She had a hold of my pant leg earlier and I was afraid she was going to tear my pants and then I'd be mad.  She can be a spazz, but is just so stinking cute.  We took her to Petco today for the first time and everyone there loved her.  How could you not!!

Keria - Yes, she has a soft belly and is laying on her back right now so I'll give her a few rubs.  It so weird b/c everyone one IRL that has seen the pics of her and then sees her in person thinks she looks so much smaller in person and the pics make her look huge.  She is just 10lbs right now.

[Purple Piggie]

Alphahen - those numbers seem pretty good to me - 5 out of 8 is great! Hope they all keep growing for you! When I had my IVF they retrieved 26 eggs and only 12 fertilized, so yours are doing well! Grow embryos grow!

Blue - She's really cute! She must be hard to resist, but stay strong and don't start anything you don't want to continue doing for the long term (like snuggling in bed!)

Aprilmom - Welcome! These are a great bunch of ladies who aren't judgemental and are very supportive and caring. It's a great place to voice your fears and hopes and to vent if needed. Hope your time spent here is helpful and you have success! 

AFM - I've made a chart for the next 7 weeks, to lose some weight. I have to put some physical activity in each day, no less that 30 minutes. I've got a pass for 20 zumba classes, and I hope to bike around more with DD. I have a treadmill for rainy days, too. Maybe I should make a rule that I can't watch TV unless I'm on the treadmill. Problem is, I'm on the computer a lot more than I watch TV and it's hard to type while on a treadmill!

Does anyone want to be an exercise buddy with me and get fit for fall IVF or ET?? My goal is to lose at least 5 pounds over the next 7 weeks. Realistic, I think. I'd like to lose more but it's a good start.

[aprilmom]

Thanks for the welcome! We started trying for baby #2 in July of 2007.  After a little over a year we did clomid with no luck.  So we went to see an RE.  in 2009 we did 3 IUI's.  We started out with the pills and then by the last cycle they had me doing shots and my body still barley produced a decent egg.  So, I am a little worried about that.  We decided after that we were a good family of 3 and moved on.  That is in Aug '09.  In March of 2010 I noticed I was late and ran to the store to buy a test... it was positive.  We were in complete shock.  Then it turned out to be a blighted ovum and they induced m/c at 8 weeks.  It took me a while to recover from that.  So we decided early this year we would go back to the RE (this was a new one because the old one retired but same office).  We wanted to see what path he would have us head down and he felt our best options was IVF.  When we checked with insurance they said they only cover infertility treatments if you have been infertile for a year or more.  Because we had our m/c in June we had to wait.  Then, I got a new job and they have better insurance and will pay for the majority of the cost... and I would get 12 weeks paid maternity leave... but you have to be there for 12 months.  So, we are trying to time it so that I would qualify for that.  

I have got caught up on the thread.  While I don't like meeting any of you for this reason, it is nice to have someone who understands.  

[blueyezz4]

Aprilmom -  Wow, that is awesome that you have insurance coverage and then with your new job it even got better.  Sorry to hear about your past m/c, but it sounds like b/c of that it opened your eyes to wanting another baby.  I'm looking for a rainbow babe as well so we will be on our hunt together.  We actually might be come cycle buddies b/c our next fresh IVF may be in July or Aug all depends on when my next AF shows up.  This thread kinda seems to get quieter on the weekends just so you know and then picks up during the week.

Purple Piggie - I know...it is hard not to spoil her and I totally understand how some mothers will let their babies do certain things that they said they would never do just b/c you get to the end of your rope and sometimes it's the only option for a little peace.  We used to let our other dog sleep in our bed (under the covers) so with this one we aren't sure but we will for sure have a little cuddle time in bed and then hopefully let her sleep in her own bed after that next to our bed.  We'll see.  Good luck on your exercise program.  DH and I are trying to eat a little better but it is kinda a modified diet program that we are doing... nothing crazy.

AFM-  Puppy patrol and my parents in town are keeping me busy this weekend.  Hope everyone is well and Hello to all!!!

[BellyBean]

Aprilmom, Welcome!  That is so great that you have fertility coverage and a fantastic maternity program!  I hope your stay here is short.

Blue, your puppy is so cute!  I was thinking that getting a puppy before a baby is perfect timing.  It gives you guys time to bond a little first :)

Purple, you crack me up :) I totally pictured someone on a treadmill and typing at the same time.  I think 5lbs in 7 weeks is totally obtainable.  I was up about 9lbs between vacation and all the IF treatments since February.  I have been watching my portions/snacking and getting more excercise now that we can spend time outside...so far I am down about 3 lbs in 2 weeks.  If this is a BFN, I am really going to focus on those last 6lbs before my August cycle!

Kewpie, yay for 9 weeks!  I love your new profile picture.

Alphahen, when do you transfer?  I hope those embies are growing strong!

Taxlady, rcr, silver, everyone...HI :)

AFM, I am 11dpo today.  Starting to really think about POAS, maybe tomorrow at 12dpo, my beta isn't until Thursday 14dpo.  I really don't think I am preggo, but a few times a day I get a crampy/pinchy feeling that kind of makes me wonder.  It's so weird that the morula has been in there almost a week and I don't know if it is still growing or arrested.

[rcr]

Welcome Aprilmom!

Blue, what a cutie! I would totally snuggle up with him in bed all the time! Congrats!

Belly - hi! I am kinda hoping that you do POAS, because I am leaving for a 3-week vacation on Thursday, and I want to see what happens before I leave. I am crossing everything that is is a BNP for you!

Purple - good luck with the diet. I would join you, but I am going on vacation, and I am trying to not obsess over TTC too much until I get back and start again. I was what I thought was a perfect weight before I started fertility treatments, but I gained like 20 pounds, so I really want to either loose it or get pregnant so that it counts for something. Hopefully I get pregnant.

Hi to everybody else! Sorry to be quick, but I am busy catching up on a few things at work before I leave.

[alphahen]

aprilmom:  welcome!  I am relatively new to the group too and have found everyone to be wonderfully supportive.  Sounds like the new bennies are unusually good based on what I am aware of so I definitely understand your desire to time things so that you can take full advantage of them.

blue:  oh my gosh – Abby is so cute I could just eat her up!  I know it is a lot of work and sleepless nights right now but it is sooooo worth it, isn’t it?  I just love that puppy smell and the soft fur!! I better cut this off now before I go get my own puppy!

kewpie: thanks so much for the good wishes.  so excited the little ones are growing stronger and stronger every day!  Thanks for letting us see on of the first official pix!

keria: your encouragement means so much!  It helps so much to have someone who went through a cycle similar to mine and saw success.  How are things going for you?

purple:  I hear you will feeling the need to get healthy.  I have put on ~20 pounds during the stressful TTC journey and I know that isn’t helping matters any.  Regardless of the outcome of this cycle, I plan on resuming a regular exercise schedule.  I really need to regain some healthy habits!

belly:  FX for you.  Hoping those twinges are a good sign!  Also, completely empathize with the urge to POAS.  I am sure I will be in the same boat in a week or so!  

AFU:  Heard from RE office this AM.  All five embies made it through the weekend.  Based on how they looked this morning, they are recommending a Day 5 transfer which will be this Wednesday.  The nurse said that there were two rated 4.5 and three rated 3.5.  I am assuming this is on a 5-point scale with 5 being best since she acted like the 4.5's were the best.  Anyone familiar with this rating system?  I sure would love to understand a little better what this means. 

I also got my acupuncture appts set up - one before on Tues evening and one immediately after.  Otherwise, just trying to pass the time until Wednesday.  Time seems to pass SOOOOO slowly right now!

[BellyBean]

Alphahen, seems like every RE has a different rating system which I find extremely annoying.  I would guess it's a 5 point scale too, and 4.5 sounds fantastic!  How many do you plan on transfering?

rcr, I went out today and bought a 3 pack of tests.  I am hoping I don't go through them all :)  I keep going back and forth on testing tomorrow or Wednesday.  I am not too confident it will be a BFP, but I NEED to know either way now!  haha, patience isn't a virtue of mine :)

[rcr]

Alpha - congrats! I don't know what 4.5 means, but if the nurse was happy about it, I  would say that is good news too! The fact that they want to wait until day 5 must be good, right? Don't they like to transfer on day 3 if they are not doing great?

Belly - Well, I am crossing my fingers for you, whether or now you POAS tomorrow or not.

[Keria]

Alphahen I;m glad your 5 little babies are doing well.

Belly I'm not patient either I tested at 10 dpo but I was terrified so either way

Blue how is the puppy/ is she letting you sleep now?

[blueyezz4]

Keria - things are going pretty well.  She slept the best last night than she did the last two nights. Hopefully it will continue. We went to bed at like 11 and I got up with her at 1am and then she slept until 5ish and DH got up with her then.  I might have the whole night shift tonight b/c I'm off work tomorrow, so it might be all my night.  She is so sweet when she sleeps and right when she wakes up and then there usually is a time when she becomes "devil dog" as we call her when she gets crazy and is into biting and being puppy wild.  How are you feeling and whats next for you.

Belly- Don't know where you live, but you can get tests at the dollar store for a buck.  They work too b/c that is what I used when I got my bfp with our boys and then after 2 of those I went out and got the expensive digital one just to be sure.  Fingers crossed for you.

alphahen - Don't know anything about that rating system, but it sounds like you have some good quality eggs.  Fingers crossed for you and your transfer on Wed.  Keep us posted.  Hope the time speeds up some.

rcr - when do you leave for your trip?  Hope it is great!!!

[Keria]

Blue I'm glad puppy is sleeping better, as for me I'm not so patiently waiting for my u/s, I wish I could just relax and be pregnant but I worry so much,sometimes I wish I had my own transvaginal u/s machine so I could see my baby everyday and make sure s/he is alright.

[BellyBean]

Keira, I am sorry you are so worried.  I was the exact same way, I seriously considered buying/renting a doppler to hear the heartbeat as often as I needed.  I never did, mainly because DH thought it was crazy :) Haha!  Hopefully time passes quickly for your u/s...is it next week?

AFM, POAS this morning.....not really surprised it was a BFN.  I decided I really do like the gradual let down of POAS.  I still have a sliver of hope that maybe my morula was already a day behind and then implanted a little late, but honestly, I can start coming to grips with a negative.  I don't even want to keep taking the vaginal progesterone because it is such a pain, but I will...it's only 2 days till beta.  Looks like I'll be here at least a couple more months.  I never thought I would actually consider stopping all of this, but it's really starting to wear me down.  Just thinking about maybe cycling in October (if August is BFN), is mind numbing.  I mean, I am already at the most advanced ART there is....huh, guess this is me venting.  I have to do some contract work today so I wont be back till later.

Hope everyone else is doing well.

[missme]

Just dropping in to say HI!

Blue - I love your puppy! Sounds like you're having lots of fun with her. I was also glad to read that your procedure went well and that they took out polyps - hopefully it'll make a difference in your next cycle. xoxo

Kewpie - I love the pic of your twins. I hope they keep on snuggling in. I'm so excited for you.

Keria - I totally hear you on the worry. I barely sleep before my midwife appointments cause I'm so afraid there won't be a heartbeat. I think I'm feeling movement (maybe?) and mostly I can't wait for that cause then I'll know that my fetus is still living. It feels morbid, but the fear is there when it's been a hard road. Just try to send love to your little bean as much as possible. xoxo

Alpha - I'm not sure about that rating system - but if they're recommending a Day 5 transfer, your embies are in great shape! Are you transfering 1 or 2? Or have you decided? I transfered 1 on day 5 cause mine were good quality. And I'm terrified of having twins as a single mama!

Bellybean - I'm sorry your stick was N. Crossing my fingers for a lucky beta, but sending you big hugs. xoxo

AFM - I'm doing great right now - 2 1/2 days of school left and feeling good. Thinking of you ladies and stalking often. I hope it's a fabulous summer full of BFPs!!!

[alphahen]

Belly:  I am sorry about today’s BFN.  I definitely understand the inclination to let yourself gradually get used to the news as long as you don’t give up hope just yet!  And please feel free to vent away!  That is what we are all here for and this whole process is extremely exhausting.  Going through it has given me the greatest respect for all who brave are brave enough to undergo ART.  Anyone willing to go to these lengths is going to be an INCREDIBLE parent.  Just my two cents ….

To your earlier question, we are planning on transferring two.  Since we have no kiddies, we are comfortable with the possibility of twins but I get worried about the health risks with three or more.  From the reading I have done, it seems like it is pretty rare that RE will want to transfer more than 2 on a day 5 transfer.

Rcr:  Thanks so much for the encouragement.  I think you are right.  It seems that they only let the embies go to Day 5 if they have reasonable assurance that a subset of them will make it to that point so I have my fingers crossed.  A vacation sounds like a wonderful thing right now.  We are just getting away for the long weekend but I can’t WAIT for the distraction of a little warm sand between my toes.

Keria:  I am so sorry the worries are getting to you but I can so understand. I was just IM-ing with a friend who is so excited and hopeful for us but I just can’t get there yet.  I am hoping you can find some things that bring some level of peace (maybe meditation? Yoga?) or at least a good distraction to get you mind off things for a bit.  

Blue:  I remember both the sleepless nights and the devil dog phase all too well.  So excited you are starting to get a little more sleep.  That is pretty fast (knocking on wood for you as I type).  Hope you are enjoying your day off!!

AFM:  Acupuncture tonight in preparation for tomorrow.  I have gotten to the point where I can relax enough to take a nice little nap on the table and I feel so much better after that I really look forward to it!  Transfer will be at 11 tomorrow morning.