I'm currently 38 weeks pregnant with my DD2. I'm still nursing my almost 3 year old...she has always been a MAJOR nurser and nursed around the clock from the time she was born until I got pregnant. I nursed her for everything...hunger, comfort, sleep, boo-boos, etc.everything. At 18 months she was still waking to nurse 6+ times a night. I was so worn out that I could barely function. I'm starting to get really worried that I'm going to go through that again with this little baby. Don't get me wrong, I love nursing her, but it takes a toll after awhile. I was very anti-pacifiers with her as I was afraid it would damage our breastfeeding relationship. I'm going to be tandem nursing this time too. I'm starting to wonder if there is anything I can do differently. My question is: For those of you who used pacifiers, did you notice any negative effects to your breastfeeding relationship? Yes or No, and when did you introduce the pacifier, at what times (bed), etc. I'm still not sure if I'm comfortable with using one, but I'd like to hear from some experienced mamas.