Sbx doesn't request or ask me if he can shorten or totally miss his parenting times, he informs me. I've reached my limit and wrote all his parenting dates and times down and sent it to both sbx and his attorney a while back, informing sbx that if he wanted to changer any of the dates/times, he needed to send a request by email to me. Well, of cause he is pitching a total fit saying it's not written anywhere that he needs to do that etc. Well, last night he informed me via text he was returning our children tonight (Sunday 8pm) instead of the agreed time/ date, Monday 10am. I've refused and he now still has the kids and told me I have to pick them (the children) from his moms place of work (which I don't actually know the location of). It is court ordered that he is responsible for pick up and drop offs.
Am I being a bully? Should I be more flexible and let him pick up drop off whenever he wants to? I don't mind so much if he gave me notice (7 days) by email, but this being told the night before just rubs me the wrong way.
Opinions? Be honest, even if it's not what you think I want to hear!!! Thanks!!