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do you think you are addicted to the internet?

post #1 of 28
Thread Starter 

I am.

 

I am not just whining, though, I am am actively going to try to stay off of it (starting tomorrow).  Today I will whine about my internet addicition.

 

Yes - total irony to post on a forum about addiction to forum - I just get the sense some of you understand.

 

Ugh.

 

Kathy

post #2 of 28

No. I would have thought maybe yes. But then we didn't have internet for a couple of days(outage in the area). And except for not being able to talk to DH who is working away, I didn't miss it. I enjoy having it when it's there, and I admit I do waste too much time on it in many cases, but I can also take it or leave it.

 

Could you just unplug your router for a couple of days and give yourself a break? 

post #3 of 28

yes.

 

I need a 12 step program. I've tried to quit on my own.

post #4 of 28
The internet as a whole? No.

Mothering, Boing Boing, and my Gmail account? Yes.

I have to do a lot of work on the computer so I just switch back and forth between work and play throughout the day. Some days Im online all day long, some days I dont even check email. My email account is super active because of our business, and I do a lot of plant research and looking though prices of materials which gets really old. If I dont look at Mothering or BoingBoing I will go crazy. Also, I cant focus on businessey stuff when nursing DD.

I have taken breaks from the internet several times, and often go a day or so without even touching the computer, but I think I should probably use it less than I do smile.gif
post #5 of 28
Yeppers. I desperately want to instill a no-screen-time week for our family but I haven't done it yet. There is just so much exciting stuff on the internet! Videos, information, history, email, facebook, mothering, twws smile.gif, music, friends, tv shows, documentaries, connection....oh where does it end. I do have a goal this summer while the kid is out of school to go to the Y every morning and try to have some activity every day. This way I am not at home so I can't just escape any time I want. It doesn't help that I have ADD so my millions of thoughts and interests can be googled at any time day or night. eyesroll.gif
post #6 of 28

I am and I admit I am.  Not necessarily the Internet for Internet sake, it is more site specific but I feel it when I can't get on.  I get antsy, am afraid I might miss something.  It's really stupid. orngbiggrin.gif 

 

I keep threatening my family that we need an electronics free vacation.  One of those places on the beach with no electricity. Bonfires at night, transistor radio. Then I think who am I kidding!

post #7 of 28

not at all..  I have to force myself to get online just to check my email :) 

 

I am trying to get on here more though since I'm nearing the end of my pregnancy and mdc got me through the constant nursing, 4 am wakings and pp freakouts last time. 

post #8 of 28

Yes, absolutely. I am completely addicted. It's bothersome. When I'm not on the computer, I'm usually on my phone internet. I'm a sad case. help.gif

post #9 of 28
Thread Starter 
Quote:
Originally Posted by SubliminalDarkness View Post

 

 

Could you just unplug your router for a couple of days and give yourself a break? 


I thought of asking MDC to temporarily ban me for a couple of weeks - just to get myself off it.  We will see if I will.  I am OK when I am on vacation,  I barely miss it.  It is when I am at home (and occasionally at work) that I overdo it

 

Glad I am not alone.

 

 

 

post #10 of 28

Yes, addicted. As in, I can't quit even though I want to.

 

 

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Originally Posted by kathymuggle View Post

 

I thought of asking MDC to temporarily ban me for a couple of weeks - just to get myself off it.  We will see if I will.  I am OK when I am on vacation,  I barely miss it.  It is when I am at home (and occasionally at work) that I overdo it

 

Glad I am not alone.


Huh. Interesting thought.

 

post #11 of 28

I have wondered this-- there are times where I want to get off the net and just can't.  I don't count checking/ responding to email as "bad," since these are relationships I need to nurture, but the problem is that I then go from email to all the addictive sites... my weaknesses are news/ politics sites and message boards even though I am not that into politics dizzy.gif ... but once I start reading I can't stop and then I'll start reading one depressing news article after another.  I also game a bit which again I don't really count as "bad" as long as I keep it to an hour or so.  I don't watch TV so I figure 2-3 hours of computer time a day isn't that bad... is it?

post #12 of 28
Yeah, we don't have TV either but I spend just as much time with netflix. Once I had DP hide the router cord. That lasted a day. I do feel better if I can force myself to take a day or so break, kinda makes me remember what else there is to do.
post #13 of 28
Yes, I am very addicted. I don't have an internet phone or anything but when I am home I am always running to the computer for "just 5 minutes"... For me, I am such a people person but so shy/socially awkward at the same time, that I have a hard time getting enough social time IRL, so I rely tremendously on the internet (specifically email, MDC...) It's definitely something I *want* to work on and I am hoping once I get my health issues under control I'll have more energy to pursue other activities. Plus I always get sucked into interesting online discussions when I'm bored at work & NEED to stay on the computer... so then I have to come back later when I'm not working to continue reading etc.!

Good luck with staying off tomorrow...
post #14 of 28

completely addicted

post #15 of 28
Yes.
post #16 of 28

Yes. I spend way too much time in front of the computer but I use it for everything. I watch tv shows on it, I talk to my sisters, I do fun stuff, I blog, I upload and edit pics, I use the calendar, check the weather, listen to radio, look for recipes, read the news. It's a machine full of answers to my random questions: what is the weird bug in my garden? how do you refinish an old wood floor? how do you hang a door? when did xyz movie come out? what does random word I keep running into really mean? how do I say xyz in french? 

 

Our modem wasn't working for 2 days last month and it was hell. The questions were eating away at me. It was torture! I don't know what I did before internet. I felt like I should invest in a set of encyclopedias, reference and how to books in case of apocalyptic events. I'm sort of joking but not really. 

post #17 of 28

Totally.  I actually had DH put a password on the computer and set up the parental controls so I can only have access to it two times a day.   I realize that sounds ridiculous but I find it really helpful!  Really!  I don't even think about the computer if I know I can't use it so it's totally fine.    I hope someday to be able to self regulate but this has been really helpful. 

post #18 of 28
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Originally Posted by HeatherAtHome View Post

Yes. I spend way too much time in front of the computer but I use it for everything. I watch tv shows on it, I talk to my sisters, I do fun stuff, I blog, I upload and edit pics, I use the calendar, check the weather, listen to radio, look for recipes, read the news. It's a machine full of answers to my random questions: what is the weird bug in my garden? how do you refinish an old wood floor? how do you hang a door? when did xyz movie come out? what does random word I keep running into really mean? how do I say xyz in french? 

 

Our modem wasn't working for 2 days last month and it was hell. The questions were eating away at me. It was torture! I don't know what I did before internet. I felt like I should invest in a set of encyclopedias, reference and how to books in case of apocalyptic events. I'm sort of joking but not really. 


Yes- all of this.  it's a MAGIC BOX that  KNOWS ALL!!!  Really, yes, I use it too much right now.  I need to change that.  I am hoping that the move to a new area will allow me to establish different rhythms within my life.   

 

I did unplug our second computer so I HAVE to be off when one of the kids is using the computer.  Since my oldest uses it for research and for fun, that helps a lot. :P

 

 

post #19 of 28

Nope.  I get on more when the chronic fatigue is acting up.  I've been finding it pretty boring lately.  Maybe I need to find some new sites.  I get on to check email, fb, to check yahoo homeschool groups, research ideas of places to take ds and things to do. 

post #20 of 28

I don't think so. I'm hardly ever online on the weekends, and I don't miss it. It might help that my work and home computers, while both at home, are separate, and I never go on any non-work-related sites while I'm working (my company is very Big Brother and I'm skeered that they can see everything I'm doing). I surf for about an hour in the morning and again in the afternoon, and that's about it.

 

There have been times when I spent way more time online, but then I got bored of it. There are really only 2 sites I visit regularly (MDC and TwoP), and now that MDC is so slow it's easy to get updated on everything in a short period of time. 

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