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strong willed 8 year old daughter

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Hi guys, I am new to this website and in desperate need for some sound advice. I have a daughter who is 8 years old and extremely strong willed. She doesn't like to be told no and more days than not she doesn't follow direction well. She gets mad when I tell her that its time to come inside or time for a bath or even when I try to spend time with her doing something that she chooses it becomes a struggle. she tells me that she hates me, screams at me from the top of her lungs, has even went as far as saying that she wished that she was adopted. I do know that she gets frustrated easy and is on the defensive quite a bit. I try not to take this personal but at times its difficult. I have tried just about everything. I have tried so many methods to get a grip on this for the sake of all of us and have failed. If anyone would have any ideas that they could share with me I would be forecer grateful. I don't want to sound like my child is this horrible little person because I don't feel that she is but something is going on and i do not know what direction to go. thanks for letting me ramble. whew

 

frustrated and lost 

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Hi,

 

I recommend checking the collaboration problem solving approach cps videos  - the web sites and blog are very helpful

http://tiny.cc/0vayn and the thread here on Non violent communication NVC   role play videos 

CPS and NVC compliment each other 

 

 

 here are the YouTube links:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kf92pJvoOac&feature=player_embedded#at=108

 

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HsyON8QERYc&feature=related

 

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zuFQQnq8zEs&feature=player_embedded

 

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rrKeKI7hVD8&feature=player_embedded

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