have a bit much on my plate these days health wise ...
but am still thinking about my problem with dusting !
thank you for your suggestions
am going to try and ask someone I met fairly recently who could be a good fit for me
(I know someone who does cleaning as a job but she would be such a bad fit for me, making me feel bad etc....)
+ I've read parts of "Burried in treasures" by Tolin
& score high in perfectionism and avoidance (not a surprise !!!)
at least I'm past the pre-contemplation stage
am now at the contemplation stage ....
little steps by little steps ....