I'm wondering if any of you moms out there had an experience in which a c-section was necessary because the baby's head was stuck, and were still able to have a vbac with your next child? i don't know if another child is in our future or not, but if i do decide to have another, i want to know if anyone else has been in my shoes.
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my entire pregnancy with ryleigh was fantastic, but at 36 weeks i started showing signs of pre-ecampsia. i'm a massage therapist and have a lot of experience with meditation and relaxation techniques so i was doing everything in my power to stay calm and relaxed. i had been planning a natural birth all along and had taking hypnobirthing classes. but at my 37 week visit with my midwife, my blood pressure was sky high and feet and legs extremely swollen. she send me for a NST and Ryleigh was looking great, did the 24 hour urine test, and everything was fine. 2 days later went for another NST, and my BP was just too high and i was sent to the hospital to be induced. cervidil for 12 hours, then pitocin for another 12 hours and NOTHING. some contractions but nothing regular and absolutely no dilation. my blood pressure actually stabilized so i was sent home on strict bed rest. back for another NST 3 days later and BP was high but not crazy, baby was still doing fantastic. next day received acupuncture and did some self acupressure to try and get things moving. i got super excited because contractions were regularly coming 4 minutes apart for 3 hours but then everything stalled. next day went for another NST, and again was sent to be induced.Â
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this time i had cervidil for 12 hours, meso for 4 hours, a foley catheter in my uterus to help me dilate, and when i finally got to 4cm, they broke my water. at this point everything becomes a blur. i hadn't eaten in 24 hours, hadn't slept in 2 days. i don't remember asking for the epidural (my husband tells me later i was sobbing as i asked for it) but i do remember 2 nurses trying to hold me still while i received it because i was shaking so bad. i think i slept some that night but at some point the epidural wore off on the left side of my body and anesthesia came in to adjust it. my midwife came in in the morning and told me the best thing i ever heard: "you're fully dilated and can start pushing!" after almost 3 days of induction, i couldn't believe it was finally time. i pushed for a hour and a half when my epidural wore off again. i was making very little progress with each push so the midwife tried getting me into other positions but the epidural was still affecting me enough that i really couldn't. i pushed for another hour when they had an OBGYN come in and check me and determine that i needed a CS, her head just wasn't going to fit. it was at this time that i remembered my midwife telling me at my first prenatal visit that i had a very low lying pubic bone. she had said not to worry, that the body is an amazing thing and moves and adjusts for pregnancy and delivery. booooo. the surgery itself was aweful, i kept vomiting (which i had done throughout the past 24 hours) and couldn't stop shaking.
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through this entire crazy ordeal, Ryleigh never had a decel, never showed any distress at all. she was perfectly happy in there. she was born healthy and happy at 8lbs, 5oz. my BP shot up again after the CS, so i was put on meds and sent back to L&D instead of the postpartum floor for another 24 hours. 6 days i was in the hospital! i look back now and the 3 day process of bringing Ryleigh into this world is all a blur. i don't remember what the pain felt like or crying into my husbands shirt, all i remember is holding that precious baby in the recovery room.
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so here's the deal: i will always wonder if i could have done it vaginally if i hadn't gotten the epidural and was able to get into a squatting position. if i have another baby, and in some magical circumstance i don't develop pre-eclampsia and don't have to deal with an induction, would i be able to do a vbac? i'd love to hear a story from someone that my have had a similar experience.











