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post #141 of 301
I lost it. I'm not pregnant any more. I was devastated yesterday but I'm doing somewhat better today. Thank you all for all of you wonderful intentions, I guess this one just wasn't ready to stick. Since I've never been pregnant before there is a little relief in knowing I can get pregnant. Sticky baby dust to all of you.
post #142 of 301

grouphug.gif Marykgrove. I am so sorry for your loss. I hope you will be ready to try again soon. I'm glad you were able to find some good out of the situation. What a bummer that our thread has gone through this a few times now recently...

post #143 of 301

Just doing some chart stalking... 

 

FairyMe- Hi! You ovulated?!?!

 

Anyone want to chart stalk me...because...

 WTF dizzy.gif I know it is really, REALLY early, but according to Google and some RE's online, definitely possible, but rare, but I think I may have experienced implantation. Already. If the egg met some sperm that was already there it could be closer to 5 days not 4... then it reached blastocyst status pretty quickly... then traveled at the speed of light...and yesterday I did the 2 things that are supposed to according to the internets best encourage implantation (pineapple core and acupuncture)... and because of last month my uterus may be a little more sensitive (according to my tcm person)... it has already implanted??? I have NEVER in my life had non after BD related mid-cycle spotting. It was exactly like everyone says, the internet says, implantation bleeding should be followed by a light cramping for an hr or so. Then gone (still a tiny bit of brown sticky by my cervix) I'm still confident I O'd. My temping times have not been very accurate this cycle. Today's was only about 15 minutes early though so it probably would have only gone up .1. So maybe an implantation dip? I guess we won't know about that until tomorrow. Now I have to keep temping.

 

Ok...deep breath. Trying not to stress. It's way to early for that...

post #144 of 301
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I lost it. I'm not pregnant any more. I was devastated yesterday but I'm doing somewhat better today. Thank you all for all of you wonderful intentions, I guess this one just wasn't ready to stick. Since I've never been pregnant before there is a little relief in knowing I can get pregnant. Sticky baby dust to all of you.



Im so sorry hunhug2.gif  unfortunatly it happends and too often. Its good that your positive cause the more stressed you are the harder it is to become pregnant. Now you know it can happen im sure it can happen again real soon. More like next cycle! Lets hope for some BFPs next time around :)

 

post #145 of 301

So sorry maryk... eat some extra chocolate today and take it easy!

 

No, I have not tried acu yet. Trying to decide what to do next....

post #146 of 301

marykgrove, I'm so so sorry for your loss. There seems to be a couple of us in this group who have gone through miscarriage the last few months, so if you need an understanding ear, we're here for you. Take care and be gentle with yourself. 

post #147 of 301

Hugs, marykgrove.  I'm so sorry.  You take care of yourself.  Are you getting through alright?  Take it easy.

 

Sila, it's hard to tell.  You had spotting on CD 17 too?  That one is definitely too early to be implantation spotting, so it's hard to tell if the spotting from today is the same as that or implantation.  It's looking like it definitely could be, though, even though it's earlier.  You can ovulate within about 3 days of peak day, so it's possible you Oed as early as CD 13, and then implantation today doesn't sound so strange.

post #148 of 301
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Sila, it's hard to tell.  You had spotting on CD 17 too?  That one is definitely too early to be implantation spotting, so it's hard to tell if the spotting from today is the same as that or implantation.  It's looking like it definitely could be, though, even though it's earlier.  You can ovulate within about 3 days of peak day, so it's possible you Oed as early as CD 13, and then implantation today doesn't sound so strange.


That is what I think too. Or at least how I have rationalized it in my head! I know my temps have not been at a consistent time this cycle. I do get ovulation spotting but don't chart it unless it makes it to my panties. Usually I just find a streak of blood mixed in with my EWCM when I do an internal check. I had this the last 3 days of my fertile period this month. But again I wouldn't even notice if I didn't check by my cervix. I *think* the spotting on CD17 might have been from the kind of rough BD session the night before Sheepish.gif. When I got up in the morning there was a drop of redish brown blood on my panties but nothing the rest of the day. So it could be possible that this is just old blood from that? Except I have been having definite cramp like bloated tightness feelings today. But the blood is definitely old. Kind of creamy brown. It seems to be pretty much gone now. I'm trying not to stress over it but I want to know what is going on in there...

 

 

 

post #149 of 301

Was there any red today?  If it was all brown, I would guess that it is just leftover from before.  Implantation bleeding is usually bright red as the baby cuts into your endometrium to burrow in.

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Was there any red today?  If it was all brown, I would guess that it is just leftover from before.  Implantation bleeding is usually bright red as the baby cuts into your endometrium to burrow in.


Yes last night when I when I went to the bathroom right before bed and wiped it was red (sorry, I think I left that detail out oops!). I put on a panty liner just in case for the night but nothing was on it when I woke up this morning. Just brown today when I wipe and when I checked my cervix. But all of the "feelings" in my uterus/lower abdomen area really have me wondering... 

 

I guess only time will tell. Hoping for good sleep and a nice high temp for tomorrow. I'm trying not to worry that something might be wrong.

 

post #151 of 301
Hi ladies!!! I've been checking on you all but haven't posted since I've pretty much given up. DP and I made the decision on Saturday to stop actively trying for a few months. This includes temping and charting. I agreed but decided I wanted to chart and temp til this cycle ended. Good thing I made that decision.

I started taking Maca Root last Friday and I've been drinking green tea for about a month now (12 oz five days a week) and Femaprin after I got the new order in the mail last week. I don't know if it's this combo but holy EWCM!!! TMI... It was literally flowing out yesterday and today I'm still getting big globs of it. I've never had this much in my life!!! Here's a pic of my OPK from yesterday. I took it with very dilute urine but the test line showed up within 10 seconds!!! Today's is even darker.

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post #152 of 301
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Hi ladies!!! I've been checking on you all but haven't posted since if pretty much given up. DP and I made the decision on Saturday to stop active trying for a few months. This includes temping and charting. I agreed but decided I wanted to chart and temp til this cycle ended. Good thing I made that decision.

I started taking Maca Root last Friday and I've been drinking green tea for about a month now (12 oz five days a week) and Femaprin after I got the new order in the mail last week. I don't know if it's this combo but holy EWCM!!! TMI... It was literally flowing out yesterday and today I'm still getting big globs of it. I've never had this much in my life!!! Here's a pic of my OPK from yesterday. I took it with very dilute urine but the test line showed up within 10 seconds!!! Today's is even darker.

 


Yay! I can't see the picture but I chart stalked you earlier winky.gif I hope your body can get back on track and that not trying works for you! Are you going maybe BD tonight anyway?

 

post #153 of 301

No, I've been sick since yesterday unfortunately dizzy.gif. My joints hurt, so does my tummy, my mouth is bitter and my head is pounding. I was also running a fever that thankfully broke late last night. Even with all this I'd still love to but DP won't even hug me when I'm sick. The next 3 months cannot go by fast enough (that's when we'll start trying again).

 

grouphug.gif to all those that suffered losses and joy.gif to all the BFPs. dust.gif to all those in the 2WW and hug2.gif to all those that AF found.

post #154 of 301

FairyMe - get better soon! Take these next few months "off" to continue to prepare your body for pregnancy. Treat yourself like you are already pregnant and avoid things you wouldn't do if you were pregnant right now. It will go by faster than you think! I hope you get your BFP your month back!

post #155 of 301

MaryKGrove - So sorry for your loss. Take extra good care of yourself. hug2.gif

post #156 of 301

Thanks everyone for your support, I really appreciate it. I 'm doing pretty well. I 've been using all of my "tools" (EFT, essential oils, friends and family for support) to help me deal with everything. I went and saw my naturopath and she gave me some wild carrot to make sure everything gets out, but it also makes the uterus more receptive for implantation the next time around. I also got a tincture of False Unicorn to take once all bleeding has stopped to help increase my progesterone levels. Sticky baby dust to all of you and O vibes for those who need them!

post #157 of 301

That is great FairyMe! All except the sick part of course. Get well soon!

post #158 of 301
Thanks OJazzy. I hope you'll have gotten your BFP before I return in the next few months.
post #159 of 301

Hello ladies! Im here and waiting to O. Had a shift in CM yesterday from EW and C to EWCM alone. Im taking OPKs daily def getting darker but not pos yet. Im thinking within the next few days. I used to O on CD 18 back in the day.... So I guess we'll see. Hope everyone is well.

 

 

 

post #160 of 301

I thought our thread needed some bumping bump.gif

 

N&A - I hope it's sextravaganza time at your house soon!!!

 

D&J - If you're out there, I thought you might need a laugh. I'm having a bad case of "fire boobs" today and thought of you.

 

Marykgrove - still thinking of you. I hope your bleeding is subsiding and that you have gotten some rest.

 

 AFMdizzy.gifI have NO idea what is going on with me...

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