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The ONE Thread- July chit chat

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Welcome to the November DDC ONE Thread

 

The one thread is a place to chit chat, share your fears, happiness, sadness, and so forth and so on.

To be added to the list, please tell me in bold your screen name, first name, due date, what number baby it is, and anything else you'd like to add.

 

End of October

Hykue-  Julie, 30, 10/30, Tried for 7 months or so, with an early loss in September of last year

 

Early November

meb2-Morgan, 11/1 with #1

nmouse- 31, 11/2, it's my first child, I got pregnant after ramping up my BBT/OPK charting and taking various supplements plus progesterone cream.

BubbaGirl- Due 11/3.

herbmama3-7- Holly, 11/4.

Ratchet- I'm 30.  11/4

Lillysweets- Candace, 36, 11/4, expecting my 3rd

Summersquash- age 32, 11/5, pregnant with #2

ExpectantMama19- Krystal, 19, 11/5, my fiancé and I tried for 4 months with brokenheart.gif, followed by depression and tears on my part. Then when we decided that maybe it would be better to wait, the test came up positive!  This will be our first.

Mal85- Mallory: 11/6, Tried for 6 months before getting our BFP

cece- Christina, 11/6, #2

Abelmec- 31, 11/7 with #1

Seraf- 11/8, Expecting my third, I got lucky on my 4th try with frozen donor semen.  DP is also TTC now.

Paigekitten- Katie, 11/8, expecting our third baby

KayPea- 11/8, #2. We tried for 9 months (while still BFing DD)

TalkToMeNow- Amanda, 11/9, our fourth child but my third pregnancy.

Amberfawn- 11/9 with #1

2011Mama- 11/9, it's our first baby and we tried for 9 months (the last two were with a RE for PCOS).

 

Mid November

heket- 36, 11/8-12, This will be our third child and a total oops.

marybright1- 11/12, This will be our fourth kid, third pregnancy. I'm hoping for a HBAC.

TTCChloeOrConner- Nicole. 23. 11/12, TTC for 16 months naturally before getting my miracle BFP Stick, baby, stick!!!

Sothisislove- 11/12, pregnancy #5 (2 early m/cs), baby #3.  Planning another home water birth.  Tandem nursing!  DS is 4, DD is 19 mo.

AprilGlynn- 11/13, lost our son in October to SIDS and got pregnant on our first try with this baby

Miranda- 11/14, this is our fourth child.

anthiat123- Thia, 11/14, I will be just about 35 when newbie comes (bday Nov 10). Bfp after 2 months and 1 loss

Motivated Mama- Nina, mid November with #4

ajbaby- 11/16. This is baby # 2, we tried for three months.

Apmama210- Ang, 11/16

Carrieb26- Carrie, 11/16, #3, planning a home birth

MommaFlanders- Teresa, 11/17-Excited, nervous, anxious!

Jbk21- 11/16-19th with second child.  A little bit of an unexpected pregnancy, though we were discussing having #2.

 

Late November

Rachel88- Rachel – 29, 11/20, One loss and one year of TTC #1. Praying for a sticky baby this time!

Cillian- 11/20

terrainthailand- Terra, 30, 11/21

abraisme- Abra.  11/21, We were ttc for about 6mo, but my cycle had been off because of breastfeeding.  This will be baby #3 for us.

Gemimi13- Dyanna, 35, 11/21, got my BFP our first month of TTC.  It's our first baby! 

IwannaBanRN-Becky- 21, 11/21. #3, fifth pregnancy. This one was unplanned and I was on birth control. We are excited, nonetheless. :) 

mcacat- 11/22 with baby #2

crazykittymomma- Sarah, 11/23 with my second after 11 months of TTC with no PPAF due to extended breastfeeding.

mamabelle- 11/23, #2

albafan15- Alex, 11/23 with #1

howdeepistheocean- Kristie, 11/24, #4, Planned...we tried for 1 cycle and got the BFP.

sunshinemoma- Lindsey- 11/24, #2  After hoping for 6 months

ZoeJane'sMommy- 11/25, We tried for 11 months using clomid and progesterone. Our second child and pregnancy.

gardengrrrl- Em, 34, 11/25, 2 months TTC.  This is our first pregnancy and we are beyond happy!

Maria, 35, 11/25 with TWINS! after two losses (2/06 and 9/10) and 4 months of TTC in between our last loss and this pregnancy.

justamama- Dennie, late November with #4

dashley111- Ash, 11/26.

Code Name Mama- Dionna, 11/26, TTC for 18mos+; this will be our second baby.

EonJourney- 41, 11/27 with identical twins

miriam_bat_avraham-Julie, age 28, 11/28 with twins after 27 months of trying & 6 months of fertility treatments.

Jaimee,  31, 11/28, #3 and an oops! baby

Shane- 11/29

smallbrit- Emily, 11/29, #3

KaliShanti-Kali, 11/29, #3, 3rd homebirth :)

mama2mmj- Ashley 11/30, this is baby #4 and was a big surprise :)

 

 

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hildare

Sommer

purplefish

angelashn

Shannon

nearlyelated

marnica

DevaMajka

Xerxella

nj's_mom

Shauna

 

 


Edited by Jaimee - 7/24/11 at 6:25am
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Wow!  Can you all believe it's July?!  Time is flying by now!  How are you lovely ladies all doing today?  love.gif

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It's SUNNY today!!!!!!!!!broc1.gif

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I'm...surviving, lol! It's so hot. Another heat index of 105 or so today. All 3 kids have chickenpox, so we're having a pox party tomorrow. So far the only person that's responded I've never met, lol! So I'm cleaning up anyway.

 

The pox ruined my girls (the big ones anyway) going on vacation with my mom and getting a puppy while they were visiting family. Plus my mom's vacation time changed (increased) last minute and she was going to be gone 11 days and in NV (2 days away) versus OK (8 hrs away). And with her husband's family who I don't know instead of her family who I've known since I was born. So no vacation. But we still wanted to get them a puppy. Yesterday we were in the van for 8.5 hrs (with one bathroom/smoothie break) to get a puppy and get back home. But we're all in love, so I guess it was worth it. My legs and neck are just killing me today! DH worked so it was just me driving. *yawn*

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Pox party!  I wish I lived close!  Haha.  Want to send a crusty T-shirt my way?  I'm desperate to get my kids pox- my son is 8 and I know he is fast approaching that age where pox starts to get horrendous.

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Wow!  Sympathies and congrats on the chicken pox!   We still have yet to cross that bridge.  Bummer about the vacation!  Sorry!

 

I'm being a single parent for a few days, which is always challenging.   Dh is in IL looking for a rental house for us.  Crossing my fingers a suitable one can be found!  Who knew it would be so hard to find a rental house in good condition with a fenced back yard?!  Argh.

 

 

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Loving wearing clothes. I feel so much better about myself when I don't have to look at my body.

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Pox party!  I wish I lived close!  Haha.  Want to send a crusty T-shirt my way?  I'm desperate to get my kids pox- my son is 8 and I know he is fast approaching that age where pox starts to get horrendous.



I know! I waited and waited... never did find anyone to share with us. Oh well!

 

Dennie, what kind of dog did you get? We want a golden retriever, but not right now. Soon, hopefully!  Oh, you should post cute pictures!!

 

Jaimee, I feel you on the rental thing. We are trying to find a house to rent right now. We can lease starting Aug 1. People do not want to talk to you if you don't want to move in tomorrow! It's crazy. Aug 1 is one month away. Sigh.

 

AFM, I'm 21 weeks, 2 days. Had my ultrasound today and Jasper is a big, healthy boy. That was great to find out. He kicks all the time now. I love it!!

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Amanda- We got a mini dachshund. We have a 10 year old one already, and I've owned at least one for each of the last 23 years. I am kind of dachshund obsessed.

 

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DD2 and the puppy. This is day 3 of her pox and her forehead and back are the worst areas. DD3 has it all over her face, in her hair, ears, and on her eyelids. :( Day 2 for DD1 and DD3...so we're looking at another 3 or so days before everybody starts to feel better. DD1 has lots of pox but it barely affects her...kid has an immune system of STEEL. We were unsure whether or not she would get them at all!


Edited by justamama - 7/1/11 at 11:45pm
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Now Im jealous of the pox AND the cute little puppy.

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Happy 4th of July!  What is everyone doing with the holiday?  So far we've been to the local town parade, which was hot and exhausting.  Later we'll go see the local fireworks.

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We are just resting at home. The kids are just getting into the non-contagious part of the pox. And I am exhausted and on day 3 of a migraine, which is coming and going now. I can go from fine to barely moving from pain in a few seconds. We took a walk around the lake last night with DH and the dogs and got to see some fireworks.

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Ugh, I hate migraines. I have one right now. I just begged my husband to come home early if he could, which means it must be bad. greensad.gif And we're all out of milk, which means I have to try and choke down leftover coffee room temperature and black. Coffee is my most reliable remedy for migraines. 

 

But it's finally summery weather around here! We spent the morning at the park and it was lovely. 

 

 

 

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We are just resting at home. The kids are just getting into the non-contagious part of the pox. And I am exhausted and on day 3 of a migraine, which is coming and going now. I can go from fine to barely moving from pain in a few seconds. We took a walk around the lake last night with DH and the dogs and got to see some fireworks.



 

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Oh pregnancy migraines are the worst :( No motrin, no too-hot shower...when your pregnant you kind of just have to suck it up.  Hope you girls can find a cure soon.  Mine usually peak about 3 days in and start to lessen.

 

So on Wednesday I have my level 2 ultrasound.  It was supposed to be thursday- so my husband took thursday off, then they switched it and now he cant get Wednesday off.   I was told the gender at 15 weeks, and I'm hoping that tomorrow Betty has not turned into a boy, haha.  I just had the strangest feeling when they told me it was a girl- not wishful thinking or anything, just a feeling like it wasn't right.  Could have totally been me psyching myself out, but I will feel better when we see again for sure!

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The family drama is starting again.  Why do I have to have babies around holidays?!  So my in-laws are Jewish (though dh is not) and they celebrate Hannukah.  My family is Catholic (though I am not) so they celebrate Christmas.  Last year and the year before my family came for Christmas (and for the birth of my son, too).  My in-laws would have come for Thanksgiving the past 2 years but instead came just after the birth and last year came in October for dh's 30th b-day.  Okay so this year I don't want any one coming for Thanksgiving because it's so close to the birth.  My parents want to come for Christmas.  I told them okay b/c I figured that would be fine.  Apparently b/c my in-laws missed out on a holiday visit the last 2 years and b/c of my no Thanksgiving rule this year they want to come for Christmas too!  What?! 

 

Now I'm stuck!  Dh is mad I told my parents they could come for Christmas without checking with him about his parents first.  My in-laws are mad that my parents seem to just do whatever they want.  And I'm mad b/c dh is trying to convince me that it would be okay to have his parents come for Thanksgiving (instead of Christmas) despite the proximity to my due date b/c it would be nice to have help.  He says they could watch the kids and would go to a hotel with them during the birth.  Some of you may have read my saga in a previous thread about what happened with my last birth and I promised myself I would NOT make any decisions about family or who was going to be in my house during the birth until I was much further along in the pregnancy.  I do not want to agree to this!   I'm just so frustrated with the fact that they can't all put their feelings aside and realize I'm having a freaking baby and they can come for a freaking holiday next year.  What's wrong with coming a week or so after the birth?  Why can't family do what is most helpful to us?

 

I'm just so...  irked.gif

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Ugh, family drama. No fun. I know with many families it wouldn't fly, but last year we couldn't afford to go home for Christmas, so we went in January instead, when flights were cheaper. We just had Christmas in January, which was actually kind of fun. It's too bad Hanukkah is right at Christmas this year. You could celebrate Canadian Thanksgiving in October! winky.gif Or Chinese New Year in February. Sometimes it's nice to invent a holiday too. Also, since Chanukkah isn't actually a major Jewish holiday, maybe your in-laws would like to come and spend Passover with your family at the beginning of April. That way the baby would be a bit older, and more interactive. But I suppose if you had a flexible, open-minded family that might be into compromises like this, you'd have far less drama!

 

 

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The family drama is starting again.  Why do I have to have babies around holidays?!  So my in-laws are Jewish (though dh is not) and they celebrate Hannukah.  My family is Catholic (though I am not) so they celebrate Christmas.  Last year and the year before my family came for Christmas (and for the birth of my son, too).  My in-laws would have come for Thanksgiving the past 2 years but instead came just after the birth and last year came in October for dh's 30th b-day.  Okay so this year I don't want any one coming for Thanksgiving because it's so close to the birth.  My parents want to come for Christmas.  I told them okay b/c I figured that would be fine.  Apparently b/c my in-laws missed out on a holiday visit the last 2 years and b/c of my no Thanksgiving rule this year they want to come for Christmas too!  What?! 

 

Now I'm stuck!  Dh is mad I told my parents they could come for Christmas without checking with him about his parents first.  My in-laws are mad that my parents seem to just do whatever they want.  And I'm mad b/c dh is trying to convince me that it would be okay to have his parents come for Thanksgiving (instead of Christmas) despite the proximity to my due date b/c it would be nice to have help.  He says they could watch the kids and would go to a hotel with them during the birth.  Some of you may have read my saga in a previous thread about what happened with my last birth and I promised myself I would NOT make any decisions about family or who was going to be in my house during the birth until I was much further along in the pregnancy.  I do not want to agree to this!   I'm just so frustrated with the fact that they can't all put their feelings aside and realize I'm having a freaking baby and they can come for a freaking holiday next year.  What's wrong with coming a week or so after the birth?  Why can't family do what is most helpful to us?

 

I'm just so...  irked.gif



 

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Ok, so why can't your parents come for xmas Dec 22nd through the 25th, then your inlaws come the 26th through the 28th. That way they would BOTH be visiting, and they would see all of you for the same amount of time. Complete fairness AND your inlaws wouldnt have to be there while you were celebrating Christmas, since they are Jewish.

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Oh you know... b/c my parents decided on coming on the 26th and will most likely not be flexible (I know... not even on the actual day of Christmas!).  I have to keep mulling over the Thanksgiving compromise.  I mean if my in-laws are truly willing to get up in the middle of the night and go to a hotel... well, it's something to think about. Having help right away the next day is definitely appealing.  I'm just afraid I'm being easily swayed now and that I'll feel differently once we move and I'm farther along.

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Headed to the ocean tomorrow!!!  So excited!

 

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Avalon at Ocean City, MD last year.  I can't wait to see how much fun Austin will have this time...  he wasn't even crawling last time.

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You lucky dog! I haven't seen the ocean in 8 years! bawling.gif

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