My husband died
I couldn't read this and not respond. I'm so sad for you and wish you healing, but I'd like to relate a story. My uncle was 38 when he passed away under similar circumstances. It was hard on everyone, as I'm sure you know. But my 3 cousins are all normal, healthy adultsand have good relationships with my aunt,who remarried after a few years and seems very happy. It sounds like you have great support, and I hope very much, that there is light at the end of your tunnel as well.
I am so sorry to hear about the sudden loss of your husband. It seems like things are working out pretty well so far and I am glad that you have found support through this forum. I would like to offer an article titled, "Holding Your Own in the Court of Public Opinion", written by an author on the Hello Grief website. I hope this article will provide some words of wisdom as you continue down your grief journey. I would also like to suggest another article from the Hello Grief website titled, "Resilience Skills to Help Children Deal with Grief and Loss", as a helpful resource as well.
I am sorry for your loss. I know what it's like to lose your spouse so young. Mine was 32 when he died-13 days before our youngest's first birthday and I remember the feeling of telling my girls about their father. I used to check out www.ywbb.org, but don't really go there too much anymore.